"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Three Basic Principles To Attract ANY Girl !!!

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fascinating :rolleyes:

Well lets see some of your great posts capi... oh wait... "How to search" was your most notable thing... How sad.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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fascinating

Well lets see some of your great posts capi... oh wait... "How to search" was your most notable thing... How sad
? wow. You must not have read all my posts... or have you. that would be a considerable feat. How to search was stikied. But I have many a other post that are useful and helpful. Just because you don't see them doesn't mean they arn't thier.

I preach things that don't always "fit" with the DJ ideal. So they are not always honored here as great. same as a modern artist in the Classical period.
 

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I haven't been online in 4 months and you guys are evaluating eachother... sad.

Go out there, get some experience, come back, have fun with eachother. It doesn't last forever (high school).

Ahhh, I remember when I wrote this in 2002... lol good old times.

Is Jester & Specter still around?
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
I haven't been online in 4 months and you guys are evaluating eachother... sad.

Go out there, get some experience, come back, have fun with eachother. It doesn't last forever (high school).

Ahhh, I remember when I wrote this in 2002... lol good old times.

Is Jester & Specter still around?
Jester: Yes
Specter: Haven't seen him in a long while
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
I haven't been online in 4 months and you guys are evaluating eachother... sad.

Go out there, get some experience, come back, have fun with eachother. It doesn't last forever (high school).

Ahhh, I remember when I wrote this in 2002... lol good old times.

Is Jester & Specter still around?
Has it really been that long? Wow, I feel old.

Thanks Sebastian for stopping by ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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bum, read these guys
 

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wow, solid bump, this guy reminds me of myself, he preaches what I'm trying to.
 

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great post man, probably th best i have read :) keep it up
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I just finished reading the HS bible, even though I've been out of high school for 7 years now, class of 2000.

This is a great post indeed. But one thing is lacking.
whatsupwiddat said:
Give her a little bit off attention at first, using Kino and C+F to capture her interest. Then, all of a sudden, once you are sure you have established a foothold in her mind as a somebody that is possible to have a relationship with, suddenly take all that attention away.
How do you know when to start step 3? What signs should one be looking for from the girl?
 

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Don't you hate it when someone says something you know, but don't really know?
 
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