"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Textbook Definition of Don Juan

naes

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anyone ever look up the definition of Don Juan?
in case you were wondering here it is from dictionary.com:

Don Juan (wn, hwn, jn)
n.
1. A libertine; a profligate.
2. A man who is an obsessive seducer of women.

Don Juan (dn wn)
n.

A man who is an obsessive seducer of women, especially one who does so out of feelings of impotence or inferiority.


interesting..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oh i love this one...

Don Juan

n 1: a legendary Spanish nobleman and philanderer who became the hero of many poems and plays and operas [syn: Don Juan] 2: any successful womanizer (after the legendary profligate Spanish nobleman) [syn: Don Juan]
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Obsessive womanizer, seducer? I guess I'm doing it wrong. I'm usually called a gentleman, a charmer, a guy that knows what women want and a DJ. All of this from women I've gone out with. I guess it's all in the presentation.

I've found that most women are leery of womanizers and seducers because they consider them players. I on the other hand, tend to make women feel that they are the most special woman in the world when they are around me. Yeah, I'm sure it's all in the presentation.
 

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I actually stumbled upon this site trying to google the book the teachings of don juan by Carlos Castaneda. I had read many of Castaneda's books in and after high school and wanted to read them again.

I would highly recommend these to anyone here. Carlos Castaneda is a great author and never disappointed me. That is were my definition of what a don juan came from.
 

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You see the light...

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I on the other hand, tend to make women feel that they are the most special woman in the world when they are around me. Yeah, I'm sure it's all in the presentation.
You hit the nail on the head, if only others would realise this!

P.S.: Have you seen the movie called "Don Juan De Marco"? :rolleyes:


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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