"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Textbook Definition of Don Juan

naes

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anyone ever look up the definition of Don Juan?
in case you were wondering here it is from dictionary.com:

Don Juan (wn, hwn, jn)
n.
1. A libertine; a profligate.
2. A man who is an obsessive seducer of women.

Don Juan (dn wn)
n.

A man who is an obsessive seducer of women, especially one who does so out of feelings of impotence or inferiority.


interesting..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oh i love this one...

Don Juan

n 1: a legendary Spanish nobleman and philanderer who became the hero of many poems and plays and operas [syn: Don Juan] 2: any successful womanizer (after the legendary profligate Spanish nobleman) [syn: Don Juan]
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Obsessive womanizer, seducer? I guess I'm doing it wrong. I'm usually called a gentleman, a charmer, a guy that knows what women want and a DJ. All of this from women I've gone out with. I guess it's all in the presentation.

I've found that most women are leery of womanizers and seducers because they consider them players. I on the other hand, tend to make women feel that they are the most special woman in the world when they are around me. Yeah, I'm sure it's all in the presentation.
 

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I actually stumbled upon this site trying to google the book the teachings of don juan by Carlos Castaneda. I had read many of Castaneda's books in and after high school and wanted to read them again.

I would highly recommend these to anyone here. Carlos Castaneda is a great author and never disappointed me. That is were my definition of what a don juan came from.
 

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You see the light...

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I on the other hand, tend to make women feel that they are the most special woman in the world when they are around me. Yeah, I'm sure it's all in the presentation.
You hit the nail on the head, if only others would realise this!

P.S.: Have you seen the movie called "Don Juan De Marco"? :rolleyes:


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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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