The Terrible Truth About Older Women

[BaronOfHair]

When I say "men who like older," that doesn't solely mean men like me (who prefer a woman older than himself)...

Yeah, like gingivitis, you all have always been among us

 

[SW15]

The phenomenon you're describing would suggest plenty of men are into an older woman; it just took the internet to bring said men out of the woodwork.

men trying to get with old/middle-aged cooch on swipe apps are 50+ year old men.

The people who are mainly chasing older women (40+) are the 40+ men.

Yes, there are some younger men who chase older women using tech methods. The majority of interest for 40+ women comes from older, thirsty beta males.

It is less common for younger men to chase 40+ women on the internet. It's even more unusual for a man in his 30s to be seeking a woman 10+ years older.

They're similar to the coelcanth: Chances of encountering more than one of them in a lifetime are lower than The Pistons's prospects of making it to The Finals anytime soon

The 30 something man using real life methods for finding 40+ women (typically 10+ years older) is something like the coelcanth. The typical woman 40+ isn't dealing with a significantly younger man pursuing her in real life.

It's possible for a 40+ woman to get offers via her swipe queue and social media platform inboxes. These older women barely spend more than a few seconds acknowledging these offer. At that point, they would swipe left or delete and forget about the specifics of the inquiry quickly.

an older woman's daily routine isn't exactly conducive to finding these men in person.

Women as young as their 30s can have issues in their daily routines. I have rarely ever seen a woman under 30 have an issue with her daily routine putting her in contact with eligible, age appropriate singles. At some point in her 30s, most women will start to have issues with her daily routine.

The typical 30 something woman in the USA isn't like Carrie Bradshaw in the late 1990s/early 2000s on Sex and the City. According to the basic plot of that TV show, the character of Carrie Bradshaw had 3 similarly aged unmarried and childless friends who she would see regularly. These 3 friends were penis carousel riders like Carrie was.

The typical 30 something woman in the USA (even in most bigger cities) has mostly attached friends and acquaintances. Her friends and acquaintances are busy with their relationships. Her friends and acquaintances are busy having children and dealing with their young children. They don't have time to be going to fashionable restaurants and bars. The typical 30 something woman is going to find it difficult to meet her friends or acquaintances in person for basic socialization, let alone going out to bars and meeting men. The typical unattached 30 something might also find it difficult to start over and make new friends with similarly aged women in a similar life spot.

The media likes to hype 30s and early 40s Millennials as never marrieds and childless people. While there are more 30s and early 40s Millennials who are childless as compared to when the Boomers and Generation X were similarly aged to the Millennials now, it's still a smaller number.

 

[Slowhandluke]

There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under the heavens:

a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.”


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Cycle of life. mother nature gave young women beauty to attract the average guys. when that time has pass, it has pass... no more, no less.. if average women waste it by using it to ride the carousel, don't blame mother nature..

 

[BaronOfHair]

The author wrote: "Age not only diminishes the aesthetic value of a woman but erodes her usefulness to society"

That's ONE way of thinking. Also true:

Pauline Kael, Joan Rivers, Belle Barth, Camille Paglia, AS Byatt, and many more gals really hit their stride-professionally and creatively-later on in life

Add Carolines Picard

and Rice

to that list

 

[MatureDJ]

One time at an organized singles event, a woman who looked 50-ish (and had some mustache hairs) turned me down. The audacity! (I'm not saying every woman has to be into me. But I'm clearly better than her in terms of looks)

You're right, they need to adjust their attitude.

I know I just said on my last post that an older woman has abundance thanks to apps. And I stand by what I said. Here's the catch though: An older woman isn't going to get Mr Perfect. They'll get plenty of interested men...the interested men just won't be Mr Perfect.

The 50-ish woman I just mentioned from the organized singles event is probably holding out for Mr Perfect (which would explain why she's single, as well as why she's delusional enough to turn down an imperfect man who at least still has much better looks than her)

Wow, when 50-something moustached women turn you down, it really is OVER for you!

 

[Seacoast Living]

In my area, the majority of late 40s and early 50s women are generally used as fillers for pump and dumping until a younger version comes along. They are all generally friendly and attractive but are definitely facially showing their age after 48, most keep their bodies pretty good. From what they tell me, menopause messes up their hormones, which affects their skin, mood and weight. After a few years on the apps and getting frustrated about not finding a long term relationship, the ones who I have turned into friends have ended up with 60 year old men, which is appropriate for them and most women around 50. Their market value doesn't equal a man of similar age and fitness. Looking at a 50 year old woman in the morning before she puts her face on is not what any man wants to see.

 

[zekko]

One time at an organized singles event, a woman who looked 50-ish (and had some mustache hairs) turned me down. The audacity! (I'm not saying every woman has to be into me. But I'm clearly better than her in terms of looks)

If the difference was as stark as you portray, I'm guessing that she knew it, and didn't want to play that particular game. She probably knew you saw her as disposable, and that even if you stayed with her, you would think you had settled for her. That's not a desirable position to be in.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Seacoast,
In my experience,Older Women are often far and away the best lovers,being more skillful and anxious to please...Asian Women have the added advantage of still being tight ...The big detraction is their declining energy levels,they don't want to dance or engage in physical activities,and they fall asleep so early.

 

[Seacoast Living]

Hi Seacoast,
In my experience,Older Women are often far and away the best lovers,being more skillful and anxious to please...Asian Women have the added advantage of still being tight ...The big detraction is their declining energy levels,they don't want to dance or engage in physical activities,and they fall asleep so early.

I completely agree, almost every one them I've bedded are Facebook friends and are excited about coming back to please if asked. They'll clean up your house, do all kinds of crazy **** to show value. What I've found with most of them is that they know they have to have sex to continue the relationship. It's no fun dating a girl, who at the end of the night knows she has to put out just to keep dating. There are a rare amount of women, and I have found them, that whenever you get hard, you can just push them down on the bed and **** them. Those are the girls I like. The oldest I have found like this was 49, but I think she was an outlier. They dry up after 50 it seems, or keep at it because they know they won't last.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Sounds like an article written by a fat sow who is upset that there are women who take care of themselves and still look good even when they are 5 years older than her.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She had brown hair, yeah.

Her faith never came up.

To show the absurdity of her turning me down, here's an AI rendition (with the genders flipped). Her turning me down would be like the following AI man turning the following AI woman down:

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Having no social tact and ability to interact with others is something no amount of looks can overcome.

 

[DJ Novice]

At 58 I’m no James Bond clone but the majority of women in the 45+ age bracket I wouldn’t touch even if they were the last women on earth. They have let themselves go and/or their looks have deteriorated, yet their own expectations remain delusional

There are exceptions (older Asian women in particular hold their looks and understand the reality of what they can attract) but it’s slim pickings.

The 50 year old I’m dating is obsessed with keeping her body in shape and does swimming, 10,000 steps and yoga daily. She has the internal muscles and tightness of an 18 year old.

She’s also feeling the loss of her looks (she was hot in her youth from photos, dated many male models, still looks great for her age now), has very expensive breast implants (which look amazing but to be honest I prefer the softer feel of natural ones) and is getting her face rejuvenated through some minor cosmetic surgery.

Her vanity over her looks is a weak character point but at least she’s doing all she can to arrest the slide ( unlike many others).

 

[Seacoast Living]

At 58 I’m no James Bond clone but the majority of women in the 45+ age bracket I wouldn’t touch even if they were the last women on earth. They have let themselves go and/or their looks have deteriorated, yet their own expectations remain delusional

There are exceptions (older Asian women in particular hold their looks and understand the reality of what they can attract) but it’s slim pickings.

The 50 year old I’m dating is obsessed with keeping her body in shape and does swimming, 10,000 steps and yoga daily. She has the internal muscles and tightness of an 18 year old.

She’s also feeling the loss of her looks (she was hot in her youth from photos, dated many male models, still looks great for her age now), has very expensive breast implants (which look amazing but to be honest I prefer the softer feel of natural ones) and is getting her face rejuvenated through some minor cosmetic surgery.

Her vanity over her looks is a weak character point but at least she’s doing all she can to arrest the slide ( unlike many others).

I actually appreciate women like this. They work hard to keep their body fit, but they also realize in order to have a youthful appearance they are going to need to do plastic surgery to continue looking good. I've never discouraged it, and have always commented on how inexpensive it is in the grand scheme of expenses. Male actors and female actors have benefited from cosmetic surgery, I think Tom Cruise and Sly Stallone look great for their age, and if they hadnt had cosmetic surgery they would probably look like worn out hens. We should care about how we look, but also care about how our partners look.

 

[SW15]

Looking at a 50 year old woman in the morning before she puts her face on is not what any man wants to see.

I would not be excited to see this.

Age 50 is around the time when women who've remained hot post peak tend to lose their looks. It's difficult for a 50 year old woman to be objective good looking.

 

[BadBoy89]

Older Women are often far and away the best lovers,being more skillful and anxious to please.

Yes, it’s because they have no choice.

Asian Women have the added advantage of still being tight

Why Asian women?

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi BadBoy,
Yes,Asian Women are Gods gift to the Older Western Man...It's all about genetics really...They have adapted over the years to suit Men with a stalk comparable to a White board marker pen...But don't deprecate them,my very experienced leading Lady,opined that her best lover was a Chinese Guy ten years her junior...Not very big but very hard...BadBoy,before you drop off this mortal coil,find a good Chinese Woman or if you can handle it a bad one,teach her the Shanghai Squeeze and Sphincter Massage... May it be your foretaste of Paradise LOL.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi SeaCoast,
Yes I agree with all you have found...Your own Benjamin Franklin wrote some very wise words on the value of Older Women and finished with saying..."And they are just soo grateful"..." They dry up after 50 it seems, or keep at it because they know they won't last." Yes true of most,but then I have a 76 Years Old Lady I see from time to time,(She cooks a lovely Lamb Roast),Not on HRT but uses an HRT ointment...She bangs like a Shvit House door in a Hurricane and when suitably aroused is moist like a fresh caught trout.

 

[Chow Mein]

I completely agree, almost every one them I've bedded are Facebook friends and are excited about coming back to please if asked. They'll clean up your house, do all kinds of crazy **** to show value. What I've found with most of them is that they know they have to have sex to continue the relationship. It's no fun dating a girl, who at the end of the night knows she has to put out just to keep dating. There are a rare amount of women, and I have found them, that whenever you get hard, you can just push them down on the bed and **** them. Those are the girls I like. The oldest I have found like this was 49, but I think she was an outlier. They dry up after 50 it seems, or keep at it because they know they won't last.

The routine I instill in my partners is Drinks>Sex>Dinner
Always helps being a good cook

 

[GoodMan32]

Wow, when 50-something moustached women turn you down, it really is OVER for you!

Unfortunate but true.

If the difference was as stark as you portray, I'm guessing that she knew it, and didn't want to play that particular game. She probably knew you saw her as disposable, and that even if you stayed with her, you would think you had settled for her. That's not a desirable position to be in.

You make some good points.

I've said before that my autism combined with my above-average looks are a bad combination.

My looksmatches don't want me because of my autism, thus forcing me to dip down. Yet dipping down comes with its own set of problems: As you indicated, a woman who's below me on the looks scale might be self-conscious about our looks gap.

I speak in generalities (general trends) of course when I say I need to dip down. The last woman I had free sex with was above me on the looks scale (she's a beautiful Mexican immigrant with the nicest-feeling backside I've ever groped, despite the fact she was 42 at the time)

Having no social tact and ability to interact with others is something no amount of looks can overcome.

In that case, why have you told me I should work out? Even if working out would boost my looks, you just admitted no amount of looks can overcome my social shortcomings.

 

[zekko]

My looksmatches don't want me because of my autism, thus forcing me to dip down. Yet dipping down comes with its own set of problems: As you indicated, a woman who's below me on the looks scale might be self-conscious about our looks gap.

I think the age gap was a big factor here. She knows she's older, and realizes she's not a looker anymore (if she ever was). I'm guessing you would have better luck if you went younger. That way, if she's below you on the looks scale, it's not as complicated. Even attractive older women can sometimes be hesitant to go younger if they think it makes them look foolish.