"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the term "alpha"

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i think guys go WAY over board on this term alpha. all alpha really means is this: the guys WHO is more " alpha" then you. just has more game then you. plain and simple.

if you take the 2 terms " alpha" and "AFC" it's like saying:

" alpha" is Man united and " AFC" is Stoke.

sure one team is better then the other but they are both still soccer teams. ain't they? in the same League? who says the " AFC" can't win? sure they wont win MOST of the time. but they will win some of the time.

think about it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Packers2010 said:
i think guys go WAY over board on this term alpha. all alpha really means is this: the guys WHO is more " alpha" then you. just has more game then you. plain and simple.
Good point, Packers. The alpha is simply the most alpha guy in the room. As soon as someone else comes in who's more alpha than he is, then that guy becomes the new alpha. It's all relative.
 

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Packers2010 said:
most people forget that. if you see a guy who is " alpha" it means nothing.
I wouldn't say it's meaningless. The top dog doesn't always get the girl, but he does have an advantage.

Attraction among humans is a more complicated business than many would have you believe, however. It's not like in the wild, where the biggest, strongest lion rules. There are looks and appearances to consider, personality, social skills, social status, preferences of the female, compatability, luck, etc.
 
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