"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the term "alpha"

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i think guys go WAY over board on this term alpha. all alpha really means is this: the guys WHO is more " alpha" then you. just has more game then you. plain and simple.

if you take the 2 terms " alpha" and "AFC" it's like saying:

" alpha" is Man united and " AFC" is Stoke.

sure one team is better then the other but they are both still soccer teams. ain't they? in the same League? who says the " AFC" can't win? sure they wont win MOST of the time. but they will win some of the time.

think about it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Packers2010 said:
i think guys go WAY over board on this term alpha. all alpha really means is this: the guys WHO is more " alpha" then you. just has more game then you. plain and simple.
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Good point, Packers. The alpha is simply the most alpha guy in the room. As soon as someone else comes in who's more alpha than he is, then that guy becomes the new alpha. It's all relative.
 
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Packers2010 said:
most people forget that. if you see a guy who is " alpha" it means nothing.
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I wouldn't say it's meaningless. The top dog doesn't always get the girl, but he does have an advantage.

Attraction among humans is a more complicated business than many would have you believe, however. It's not like in the wild, where the biggest, strongest lion rules. There are looks and appearances to consider, personality, social skills, social status, preferences of the female, compatability, luck, etc.
 
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