"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the techniques here work TOO well..

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last night i went out to a club which is supposed to be quite hard to pick up at.
i very quickly had conversations with girls which were showing high interest, but didn't close anything. (i beleive i could have)
but when i was ready to score a lady and have a dance and some kissing i approached some girl, kiss closed her (american exchange student.. very easy) then kiss closed/number closed her friend (HB8), who is 28 and a phsycologist.
this girl was reserved and shy, and 7 years older then me. and in a very short time i was macking her. then she kinda said no no no i can't do this, i grabbed her, pulled her in and kissed her more. of course she was kissing back, very passionantly.
being a psycologist was cool too. cause i got some insight from someone who is supposed to know about how human minds work and all that jazz..
she was constantly telling me i was more confident then anyone she'd met and very sleazy. (i've never been called sleazy before, and i'm not taking that as a compliment.. but i can't see how i was sleazy)..
anyway, i'm pretty interested in this girl. she was pretty cool and i'd like to bang her. i told her i'll take her out to the zoo.. so i guess i'll give her a call tomorrow (thursday) and organise it for sunday.
 

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Psychologists rarely have the capacity or inclination to apply their knowledge to their own personal lives, especially women ones.
 
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IMO, you're doing just fine. all the best mate. have fun while you're at it.
 
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i've never been called sleazy before, and i'm not taking that as a compliment.. but i can't see how i was sleazy
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Hell, I'd take that as a compliment! It's something nobody would have ever called you when you were an AFC. I would have thanked her for the compliment!
 
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Don Juanabbe

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Hell, I'd take that as a compliment! It's something nobody would have ever called you when you were an AFC. I would have thanked her for the compliment!
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Exactly, sleazy is good!! You are embracing your male sexuality, unlike asexual cowardly AFCs!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Exactly, sleazy is good!! You are embracing your male sexuality, unlike asexual cowardly AFCs!
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I don't know if being called sleazy is good because of the stigma attached to it but I agree about embracing your maleness and being comfortable in acknowledging one's appreciation of sexuality.

I say that Quest should keep it up. If anything he's making a valuable impression upon women. Being memorable is a HUGE factor in separation oneself from the norm.
 
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Originally posted by Alpine
Psychologists rarely have the capacity or inclination to apply their knowledge to their own personal lives, especially women ones.
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Ya, anyone who goes into psychology goes into it to solve THEIR problems, not other peoples
 
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