"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the techniques here work TOO well..

quest

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last night i went out to a club which is supposed to be quite hard to pick up at.
i very quickly had conversations with girls which were showing high interest, but didn't close anything. (i beleive i could have)
but when i was ready to score a lady and have a dance and some kissing i approached some girl, kiss closed her (american exchange student.. very easy) then kiss closed/number closed her friend (HB8), who is 28 and a phsycologist.
this girl was reserved and shy, and 7 years older then me. and in a very short time i was macking her. then she kinda said no no no i can't do this, i grabbed her, pulled her in and kissed her more. of course she was kissing back, very passionantly.
being a psycologist was cool too. cause i got some insight from someone who is supposed to know about how human minds work and all that jazz..
she was constantly telling me i was more confident then anyone she'd met and very sleazy. (i've never been called sleazy before, and i'm not taking that as a compliment.. but i can't see how i was sleazy)..
anyway, i'm pretty interested in this girl. she was pretty cool and i'd like to bang her. i told her i'll take her out to the zoo.. so i guess i'll give her a call tomorrow (thursday) and organise it for sunday.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alpine

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Psychologists rarely have the capacity or inclination to apply their knowledge to their own personal lives, especially women ones.
 

jakeyboy

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IMO, you're doing just fine. all the best mate. have fun while you're at it.
 

Desdinova

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i've never been called sleazy before, and i'm not taking that as a compliment.. but i can't see how i was sleazy
Hell, I'd take that as a compliment! It's something nobody would have ever called you when you were an AFC. I would have thanked her for the compliment!
 

Don Juanabbe

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Hell, I'd take that as a compliment! It's something nobody would have ever called you when you were an AFC. I would have thanked her for the compliment!
Exactly, sleazy is good!! You are embracing your male sexuality, unlike asexual cowardly AFCs!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Exactly, sleazy is good!! You are embracing your male sexuality, unlike asexual cowardly AFCs!
I don't know if being called sleazy is good because of the stigma attached to it but I agree about embracing your maleness and being comfortable in acknowledging one's appreciation of sexuality.

I say that Quest should keep it up. If anything he's making a valuable impression upon women. Being memorable is a HUGE factor in separation oneself from the norm.
 

thefonz

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Originally posted by Alpine
Psychologists rarely have the capacity or inclination to apply their knowledge to their own personal lives, especially women ones.
Ya, anyone who goes into psychology goes into it to solve THEIR problems, not other peoples
 
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