"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kickureface

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i've heard that you let hte girl to bring up the talk about exclusivity. but how about in hs? is it the same? i only question this because hs girls are more insecure/shy/dunno what they doing.
thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ_Trainee_10

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If you mean to say that you are waiting for her to talk to you (perhaps about exclusivity?) then I say stop waiting and you talk to her.
 

B-Lemond

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Look buddy.

You can either do it the RIGHT way or the WRONG way.

It is your choice. Letting her ask for exclusivity is a 100% Money Back Guarentee that she wants you and no-one else.

Some HS girls believe that it is the GUY'S job to ask the girl out. Personally, that is not my style. However, you can still be exclusive with this type of girl if you are not the one that asks for exclusivity.

Either way, you can get the girl to be exclusive with you. There is just a RIGHT way (100% Money Back Guarentee that she wants to be exclusive with you and you only) and there is a WRONG way (you ask her to be your girlfriend and she becomes exclusive with you, but there are no guarentees that it will last) to do it. Both ways will get you exclusivity. One is just BETTER than the other.

The decision is yours...
Do as you'd like.
 

NeW2TheGame

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B-Lemond said:
Look buddy.

You can either do it the RIGHT way or the WRONG way.

It is your choice. Letting her ask for exclusivity is a 100% Money Back Guarentee that she wants you and no-one else.

Some HS girls believe that it is the GUY'S job to ask the girl out. Personally, that is not my style. However, you can still be exclusive with this type of girl if you are not the one that asks for exclusivity.

Either way, you can get the girl to be exclusive with you. There is just a RIGHT way (100% Money Back Guarentee that she wants to be exclusive with you and you only) and there is a WRONG way (you ask her to be your girlfriend and she becomes exclusive with you, but there are no guarentees that it will last) to do it. Both ways will get you exclusivity. One is just BETTER than the other.

The decision is yours...
Do as you'd like.
Well said.
I would say just go on a few dates with a girl, and if she asks you where this relationship is going, or asking you to be exclusive......you are in.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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