"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i've heard that you let hte girl to bring up the talk about exclusivity. but how about in hs? is it the same? i only question this because hs girls are more insecure/shy/dunno what they doing.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you mean to say that you are waiting for her to talk to you (perhaps about exclusivity?) then I say stop waiting and you talk to her.
 
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Look buddy.

You can either do it the RIGHT way or the WRONG way.

It is your choice. Letting her ask for exclusivity is a 100% Money Back Guarentee that she wants you and no-one else.

Some HS girls believe that it is the GUY'S job to ask the girl out. Personally, that is not my style. However, you can still be exclusive with this type of girl if you are not the one that asks for exclusivity.

Either way, you can get the girl to be exclusive with you. There is just a RIGHT way (100% Money Back Guarentee that she wants to be exclusive with you and you only) and there is a WRONG way (you ask her to be your girlfriend and she becomes exclusive with you, but there are no guarentees that it will last) to do it. Both ways will get you exclusivity. One is just BETTER than the other.

The decision is yours...
Do as you'd like.
 
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B-Lemond said:
Look buddy.

You can either do it the RIGHT way or the WRONG way.

It is your choice. Letting her ask for exclusivity is a 100% Money Back Guarentee that she wants you and no-one else.

Some HS girls believe that it is the GUY'S job to ask the girl out. Personally, that is not my style. However, you can still be exclusive with this type of girl if you are not the one that asks for exclusivity.

Either way, you can get the girl to be exclusive with you. There is just a RIGHT way (100% Money Back Guarentee that she wants to be exclusive with you and you only) and there is a WRONG way (you ask her to be your girlfriend and she becomes exclusive with you, but there are no guarentees that it will last) to do it. Both ways will get you exclusivity. One is just BETTER than the other.

The decision is yours...
Do as you'd like.
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Well said.
I would say just go on a few dates with a girl, and if she asks you where this relationship is going, or asking you to be exclusive......you are in.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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