"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i've heard that you let hte girl to bring up the talk about exclusivity. but how about in hs? is it the same? i only question this because hs girls are more insecure/shy/dunno what they doing.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you mean to say that you are waiting for her to talk to you (perhaps about exclusivity?) then I say stop waiting and you talk to her.
 
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Look buddy.

You can either do it the RIGHT way or the WRONG way.

It is your choice. Letting her ask for exclusivity is a 100% Money Back Guarentee that she wants you and no-one else.

Some HS girls believe that it is the GUY'S job to ask the girl out. Personally, that is not my style. However, you can still be exclusive with this type of girl if you are not the one that asks for exclusivity.

Either way, you can get the girl to be exclusive with you. There is just a RIGHT way (100% Money Back Guarentee that she wants to be exclusive with you and you only) and there is a WRONG way (you ask her to be your girlfriend and she becomes exclusive with you, but there are no guarentees that it will last) to do it. Both ways will get you exclusivity. One is just BETTER than the other.

The decision is yours...
Do as you'd like.
 
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B-Lemond said:
Look buddy.

You can either do it the RIGHT way or the WRONG way.

It is your choice. Letting her ask for exclusivity is a 100% Money Back Guarentee that she wants you and no-one else.

Some HS girls believe that it is the GUY'S job to ask the girl out. Personally, that is not my style. However, you can still be exclusive with this type of girl if you are not the one that asks for exclusivity.

Either way, you can get the girl to be exclusive with you. There is just a RIGHT way (100% Money Back Guarentee that she wants to be exclusive with you and you only) and there is a WRONG way (you ask her to be your girlfriend and she becomes exclusive with you, but there are no guarentees that it will last) to do it. Both ways will get you exclusivity. One is just BETTER than the other.

The decision is yours...
Do as you'd like.
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Well said.
I would say just go on a few dates with a girl, and if she asks you where this relationship is going, or asking you to be exclusive......you are in.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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