"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The stupid things girls and guys do...

chance

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here are some things i think are stupid:

* we pretend to be busy when we get a text or a missed call to make it look like we aren't desperate or have an awesome busy lifestyle.

* texting on the phone is stupid? why? if they like you they won't care.

* waiting a few days to call after getting a number? again why, if they like us, it shouldn't matter.

* girls leading us on and when we try to arrange a date they flake out... wasted our time just to make themselves feel better.

* lying to girls about having a job or not living with your parents. - lying has a way of coming back to haunt you... trust me. it's easier to be honest. even if you don't get the girl.

* girls ignore you instead of just saying what they wanna say.

that's all i can think of for now.

btw, i have actually done all the opposite of the things i mentioned and i've gotten laid still. i told a girl (who told me she just wanted to be friends) over msn chat that i wanted to fuk her brains out and that i would kiss her next time she came over... she did, the next day. i think it's a load of bullsh!t to not wanna do or say what you really want to... if the girl doesn't bite back then she's the problem not you. i say do what you want and say what you want!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJ_Hero said:
I think people get this wrong a lot. .
And the award for biggest KBJ goes to . . . DJ Zero

OP is right. Anything dishonest is a looser approach. I cant believe guys are still regurgitating Mysery's old line, "Fake it till you make it."

How bout, "Try and fail until you make it."
 

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People at this age and time are afraid of trial and error, afraid of failing we learn when we fail. Try until you get it right no matter what.
 

chance

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* being nice to girls doesn't work, they think its boring.

* being a jerk to girls so they like you.

* ignoring girls to make them want you more.

* if they see you with another girl they want you even more.

* being single isn't as attractive as being taken.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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