"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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here are some things i think are stupid:

* we pretend to be busy when we get a text or a missed call to make it look like we aren't desperate or have an awesome busy lifestyle.

* texting on the phone is stupid? why? if they like you they won't care.

* waiting a few days to call after getting a number? again why, if they like us, it shouldn't matter.

* girls leading us on and when we try to arrange a date they flake out... wasted our time just to make themselves feel better.

* lying to girls about having a job or not living with your parents. - lying has a way of coming back to haunt you... trust me. it's easier to be honest. even if you don't get the girl.

* girls ignore you instead of just saying what they wanna say.

that's all i can think of for now.

btw, i have actually done all the opposite of the things i mentioned and i've gotten laid still. i told a girl (who told me she just wanted to be friends) over msn chat that i wanted to fuk her brains out and that i would kiss her next time she came over... she did, the next day. i think it's a load of bullsh!t to not wanna do or say what you really want to... if the girl doesn't bite back then she's the problem not you. i say do what you want and say what you want!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ_Hero said:
I think people get this wrong a lot. .
And the award for biggest KBJ goes to . . . DJ Zero

OP is right. Anything dishonest is a looser approach. I cant believe guys are still regurgitating Mysery's old line, "Fake it till you make it."

How bout, "Try and fail until you make it."
 

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People at this age and time are afraid of trial and error, afraid of failing we learn when we fail. Try until you get it right no matter what.
 

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* being nice to girls doesn't work, they think its boring.

* being a jerk to girls so they like you.

* ignoring girls to make them want you more.

* if they see you with another girl they want you even more.

* being single isn't as attractive as being taken.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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