"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Stance

java01

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This is a technic I learnt whilst learning Kung Fu.

Back strait, shoulders back, chest out, chin up.

It’s to do with entering the world with no fear like a Shaolin Warrior & yada yada. The point is it gives you confidence through the use of this ‘stance’ & actually has health benefits such as opening your airwaves (you really can feel yourself breath better), straitening your back, & I’m sure many others. If you are a guy that is already indorsed in the fitness side of things, especially cardio exercises such as running, chances are you already have it without you noticing. So, all in all, if you want this stance without effort, just get fit!!!

This may strain your lower back at the beginning, especially if you’ve been off the fitness side of things.

Recap:

-Back strait
-Shoulders back
-Chest out
-Chin up
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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brewbaron

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this is good advice.

the posture you are talking about is also used in meditation because it aligns your spine and helps you breath deeper. an easy way to attain it is to pull yourself up from the middle of your head, either visualize it or literally pull a piece of hair upward until your body/head come into alignment.
 
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