"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Stance

java01

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This is a technic I learnt whilst learning Kung Fu.

Back strait, shoulders back, chest out, chin up.

It’s to do with entering the world with no fear like a Shaolin Warrior & yada yada. The point is it gives you confidence through the use of this ‘stance’ & actually has health benefits such as opening your airwaves (you really can feel yourself breath better), straitening your back, & I’m sure many others. If you are a guy that is already indorsed in the fitness side of things, especially cardio exercises such as running, chances are you already have it without you noticing. So, all in all, if you want this stance without effort, just get fit!!!

This may strain your lower back at the beginning, especially if you’ve been off the fitness side of things.

Recap:

-Back strait
-Shoulders back
-Chest out
-Chin up
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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brewbaron

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this is good advice.

the posture you are talking about is also used in meditation because it aligns your spine and helps you breath deeper. an easy way to attain it is to pull yourself up from the middle of your head, either visualize it or literally pull a piece of hair upward until your body/head come into alignment.
 
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