"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The "stage" men provide: are You the "bestseller"?

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We know that many women (all?) enjoy being with men of status, not to appreciate the fact that the man has earned that position, or to admire him (I think very few will do that), but for the "stage" in which they can be put on display; a bit like having bookshelves in a bookstore: every woman wants to be out front, in the window, visible, next to the "bestseller."

It's undeniable that if you have a high SMV, you'll feel this instinctively, meaning that the woman will be present with you precisely because you take her to restaurants, trips, and experiences that she can "show" on social media....
You're men;
how do you relate to this? Do you make peace with it, or does it generate internal restlessness?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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