"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The solving of an enigma

check_mate_kid_uk

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Around here, it is common knowledge that it is detrimental to your cause to show a girl an abundance of attention. Sure, some is a necessary pre requirement before anything can happen but you do need to keep her chasing and wondering rather then just being needy in order to attract her.
I am certain most of you have also heard that people like those people who like them. If you hear some one lieks you, you may even start to like the person more. If you where to think that these two things contradict each other on every levle possible, you would be absolutly correct.

What i have noticed is that whilst the first of the two paragraphs is correct. The second one is observed as being correct, but infact, is what happens when you are already attracted to someone, and have not been able to get with the girl. You allow yourself to think you have no interest in her, in order to protect your feelings. If you hear she likes you, suddenly all those feelings come back again.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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brodiev

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Saying you like someone isn't smothering them with attention, it just opens there eyes to see you in that way.

If a girl knows you like them, and you randomly send ioi's but never anything to direct, use all your tactics well, it works better then just starting on a random girl.... at least imo
 
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