"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Around here, it is common knowledge that it is detrimental to your cause to show a girl an abundance of attention. Sure, some is a necessary pre requirement before anything can happen but you do need to keep her chasing and wondering rather then just being needy in order to attract her.
I am certain most of you have also heard that people like those people who like them. If you hear some one lieks you, you may even start to like the person more. If you where to think that these two things contradict each other on every levle possible, you would be absolutly correct.

What i have noticed is that whilst the first of the two paragraphs is correct. The second one is observed as being correct, but infact, is what happens when you are already attracted to someone, and have not been able to get with the girl. You allow yourself to think you have no interest in her, in order to protect your feelings. If you hear she likes you, suddenly all those feelings come back again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Saying you like someone isn't smothering them with attention, it just opens there eyes to see you in that way.

If a girl knows you like them, and you randomly send ioi's but never anything to direct, use all your tactics well, it works better then just starting on a random girl.... at least imo
 
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