"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Social Food Chain of HighSchool

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Yeah but those chicks aren't hot, there just friends, some have the same situation as I do. That's why I wrote friends in all caps.
Listen get two things here:
1. they are chicks
2. They are your friends. That means they do not believe the rumors about you. They have heard the rumors and chosen to ignore them because they know you better. You dance with 8 chicks in a gym in front of others , that gives you social proof.

What else do you want???

Are you obsessed with that girl still?? I sure hope not...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm not obsessed with the girl thats mad at me, I just want her trust back although I'm not desperate for it.
 

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[Late reply its Tuesday now,(Had to study for a test)]

Well I texted her to ask if we could talk privately but she didn't reply, and she didn't pop up for our arts class(and I knew that she was present at school) seemingly she's avoiding me. So that must mean that she doesn't want to listen to my side cause she believes the rumors more than me, which means she's not probably worth it. But as some of you said, I should try to ignore her first, but I am looking for other possible targets, and I already have 1 in mind. :) Thx for the advices.
 
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....someone needs to make a thread explaining how social high school hieracy is BULLSH*T. If your "friends" are talking behind your back then they aren't really FRIENDS are they? So ditch them and get new ones. If they continue ask them to stop or wat the problem is... if they say YOU then kick their ass off campus. They'll never stop if they know that they can get away with it, also if you kick their ass that'll spread and they'll lose their rep.

If girls judge you by believeing RUMORS then they're stupid ignorant biatches who aren't even worth your time so find a chick that isn't a drama queen. How do u know that the RUMORS anyways? do you go around asking everyone? That's totally wussy behavior you shouldn't give a hoot about what other ppl think. I'll admit one time one of my friends came up to me and told me that this kid was talking sh*t about me, so I went up to the kid who was and confronted him. Guess what? he was a p8ssy and apologized and never did it again.

If you acutally know attraction and REREAD THE DJ BIBLE. Then you would know that if you attract a girl enough she won't give a sh*t about anything else. So mainly it's all in your head so stop b*tching and just do it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude I asked for help not flames + have you read my last post, I said I got over it.
 

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Hey Dude, read the posts, the problem is solved, + its called an introduction post; if you're too stupid to realize that. If your gonna post something make sure its useful cause you're acting like a childish 3 year old with the way you just posted this.
 

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um his location could play a key part in this, as it is different from our American or British Highschools. and stop using this as an excuse to flame someone who is ust looking for help
 

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drummer said:
um his location could play a key part in this, as it is different from our American or British Highschools. and stop using this as an excuse to flame someone who is ust looking for help
right said , and so did SIDEBOARD in the post above.. Dont flame guys . Various areas , the customs and practices differ. Keep that in mind , when you're sarging ...you'll go a long way..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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