Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Skip2mylou Story, with pics!

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Another free tip. You are from Waltham. Don't try and act Ghetto. There is nothing ghetto about this state, or anyone here.
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geeks usually dont know what the word ghetto means - sorry DUDE, but pretty much every girl that i have hooked up with doesn't like ghettoness

believe it or not, girls simply think i look hot the way i dress, whether they are white, russian, asian, spanish, brazilian, 18, 19, 22, or 24 years old

so i dont dress or act ghetto

i dress hot and act like i know what im doing

(aka not creepy or geeky)
 
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Someone said this on this:

"a true don juan is humble and helps other

which I disagree with.

As you can see from this depiction of the real fable of Don Juan he is anything but humble:

"DON JUAN is a graceless brigand of hearts, the despair of his servant, Sganarelle, and of his upright father who must repeatedly rescue him from some scrape. Don Juan's favorite method of procedure is to go through a secret mock marriage. This satisfies the girl yet leaves him legally free when he tires of her charms. His latest conquest is the beautiful Elvire whom he has enticed from a convent to "marry" him."

http://www.theatrehistory.com/french/donjuan001.html

And it is this attitude that got onto this site and corrupted the original meaning of a Don Juan that started this forum.

No offense against the fellow who said this because he got sold that version just like the rest of the guys here.

It was taken over by a bunch of guys who lacked masculine maleness of action. You can see by that very definition that it leads to a shy guy type of behavior as the correct don juan behavior.

Humble does not get you women's attention. Humble gets you the friend zone.

Humble does not make women become sexually aroused by your very presence. Real men are braggards in nature and anything but humble.

If your going to become more manly then you need to drop the humble moniker. It is that path that lead to men being on line trying to figure out why women are not attracted to them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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geeks usually dont know what the word ghetto means - sorry DUDE, but pretty much every girl that i have hooked up with doesn't like ghettoness

believe it or not, girls simply think i look hot the way i dress, whether they are white, russian, asian, spanish, brazilian, 18, 19, 22, or 24 years old

so i dont dress or act ghetto

i dress hot and act like i know what im doing

(aka not creepy or geeky)
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skip is talking about americans of russian, spanish (probably means non-white latins), and brazilian backgrounds (i doubt this one). no, skip doesn't speak five languages and live in santa catarina, brazil; omsk, russia; madrid, spain; and tokyo, japan. he wishes. with that ghetto look he would last 10 minutes in russia before skinheads sent him running back to the airport. and no skip, don't tell us that you are russian! you are more american than apple pie and fat people.

this is for you skip!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zXlvIP1kO8&feature=related
 
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TheRealSupreme said:
Someone said this on this:

"a true don juan is humble and helps other

which I disagree with.

As you can see from this depiction of the real fable of Don Juan he is anything but humble:

"DON JUAN is a graceless brigand of hearts, the despair of his servant, Sganarelle, and of his upright father who must repeatedly rescue him from some scrape. Don Juan's favorite method of procedure is to go through a secret mock marriage. This satisfies the girl yet leaves him legally free when he tires of her charms. His latest conquest is the beautiful Elvire whom he has enticed from a convent to "marry" him."

http://www.theatrehistory.com/french/donjuan001.html

And it is this attitude that got onto this site and corrupted the original meaning of a Don Juan that started this forum.

No offense against the fellow who said this because he got sold that version just like the rest of the guys here.

It was taken over by a bunch of guys who lacked masculine maleness of action. You can see by that very definition that it leads to a shy guy type of behavior as the correct don juan behavior.

Humble does not get you women's attention. Humble gets you the friend zone.

Humble does not make women become sexually aroused by your very presence. Real men are braggards in nature and anything but humble.

If your going to become more manly then you need to drop the humble moniker. It is that path that lead to men being on line trying to figure out why women are not attracted to them.
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glad we are on the same page FINALLY lol
 
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its very obvious that there are 2 kinds of people on this site:

1) people who know their shyt, and understand how to act with girls to get them and to fcuk them

2) absolute losers (who are either trolls or haters, take your pick)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah, i'd be real curious to see what a lot of the people criticizing his style dress like
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Tell me how to add attachments and I'll post a pic of myself.

It says at the bottom of the reply page, "You may not post attachments". If you tell us how to change it I'll post a pic.
 
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Tell me how to add attachments and I'll post a pic of myself.

It says at the bottom of the reply page, "You may not post attachments". If you tell us how to change it I'll post a pic.
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upload it on photobucket and then send the link here...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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and thats not an insult to you, but YOU really ought to shut your mouth l777 if you think that THAT is style, because if may work in england (not that i know anything of it), but its totally faggot-like in the USA

this goes back to my original point from over a year ago.....you people in the UK have it way different than people do in the USA, so you shouldnt even ever post on my threads, you simply have no idea whats going on
 
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and thats not an insult to you, but YOU really ought to shut your mouth l777 if you think that THAT is style, because if may work in england (not that i know anything of it), but its totally faggot-like in the USA
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I'M IN THE USA RIGHT NOW YOU MUPPET....HOW MANY TIMES!?!

Lol yea....except when I got to house parties, the first things I normally hear from girls are, in order:

1. Cool jacket.
2. OMG your accent is hot, where are you from?
3. I love your style....etc etc,

Quite often I end up sleeping with them and I get the number literally 100% of the time, no joke.
 
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I'M IN THE USA RIGHT NOW YOU MUPPET....HOW MANY TIMES!?!

Lol yea....except when I got to house parties, the first things I normally hear from girls are, in order:

1. Cool jacket.
2. OMG your accent is hot, where are you from?
3. I love your style....etc etc,

Quite often I end up sleeping with them and I get the number literally 100% of the time, no joke.
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good

how i dress gets me alot of sex from different cuties too, wanna argue some more about it?? lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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