"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Skip2mylou Story, with pics!

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Another free tip. You are from Waltham. Don't try and act Ghetto. There is nothing ghetto about this state, or anyone here.
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geeks usually dont know what the word ghetto means - sorry DUDE, but pretty much every girl that i have hooked up with doesn't like ghettoness

believe it or not, girls simply think i look hot the way i dress, whether they are white, russian, asian, spanish, brazilian, 18, 19, 22, or 24 years old

so i dont dress or act ghetto

i dress hot and act like i know what im doing

(aka not creepy or geeky)
 
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Someone said this on this:

"a true don juan is humble and helps other

which I disagree with.

As you can see from this depiction of the real fable of Don Juan he is anything but humble:

"DON JUAN is a graceless brigand of hearts, the despair of his servant, Sganarelle, and of his upright father who must repeatedly rescue him from some scrape. Don Juan's favorite method of procedure is to go through a secret mock marriage. This satisfies the girl yet leaves him legally free when he tires of her charms. His latest conquest is the beautiful Elvire whom he has enticed from a convent to "marry" him."

http://www.theatrehistory.com/french/donjuan001.html

And it is this attitude that got onto this site and corrupted the original meaning of a Don Juan that started this forum.

No offense against the fellow who said this because he got sold that version just like the rest of the guys here.

It was taken over by a bunch of guys who lacked masculine maleness of action. You can see by that very definition that it leads to a shy guy type of behavior as the correct don juan behavior.

Humble does not get you women's attention. Humble gets you the friend zone.

Humble does not make women become sexually aroused by your very presence. Real men are braggards in nature and anything but humble.

If your going to become more manly then you need to drop the humble moniker. It is that path that lead to men being on line trying to figure out why women are not attracted to them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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geeks usually dont know what the word ghetto means - sorry DUDE, but pretty much every girl that i have hooked up with doesn't like ghettoness

believe it or not, girls simply think i look hot the way i dress, whether they are white, russian, asian, spanish, brazilian, 18, 19, 22, or 24 years old

so i dont dress or act ghetto

i dress hot and act like i know what im doing

(aka not creepy or geeky)
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skip is talking about americans of russian, spanish (probably means non-white latins), and brazilian backgrounds (i doubt this one). no, skip doesn't speak five languages and live in santa catarina, brazil; omsk, russia; madrid, spain; and tokyo, japan. he wishes. with that ghetto look he would last 10 minutes in russia before skinheads sent him running back to the airport. and no skip, don't tell us that you are russian! you are more american than apple pie and fat people.

this is for you skip!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zXlvIP1kO8&feature=related
 
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TheRealSupreme said:
Someone said this on this:

"a true don juan is humble and helps other

which I disagree with.

As you can see from this depiction of the real fable of Don Juan he is anything but humble:

"DON JUAN is a graceless brigand of hearts, the despair of his servant, Sganarelle, and of his upright father who must repeatedly rescue him from some scrape. Don Juan's favorite method of procedure is to go through a secret mock marriage. This satisfies the girl yet leaves him legally free when he tires of her charms. His latest conquest is the beautiful Elvire whom he has enticed from a convent to "marry" him."

http://www.theatrehistory.com/french/donjuan001.html

And it is this attitude that got onto this site and corrupted the original meaning of a Don Juan that started this forum.

No offense against the fellow who said this because he got sold that version just like the rest of the guys here.

It was taken over by a bunch of guys who lacked masculine maleness of action. You can see by that very definition that it leads to a shy guy type of behavior as the correct don juan behavior.

Humble does not get you women's attention. Humble gets you the friend zone.

Humble does not make women become sexually aroused by your very presence. Real men are braggards in nature and anything but humble.

If your going to become more manly then you need to drop the humble moniker. It is that path that lead to men being on line trying to figure out why women are not attracted to them.
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glad we are on the same page FINALLY lol
 
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its very obvious that there are 2 kinds of people on this site:

1) people who know their shyt, and understand how to act with girls to get them and to fcuk them

2) absolute losers (who are either trolls or haters, take your pick)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah, i'd be real curious to see what a lot of the people criticizing his style dress like
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Tell me how to add attachments and I'll post a pic of myself.

It says at the bottom of the reply page, "You may not post attachments". If you tell us how to change it I'll post a pic.
 
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Tell me how to add attachments and I'll post a pic of myself.

It says at the bottom of the reply page, "You may not post attachments". If you tell us how to change it I'll post a pic.
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upload it on photobucket and then send the link here...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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and thats not an insult to you, but YOU really ought to shut your mouth l777 if you think that THAT is style, because if may work in england (not that i know anything of it), but its totally faggot-like in the USA

this goes back to my original point from over a year ago.....you people in the UK have it way different than people do in the USA, so you shouldnt even ever post on my threads, you simply have no idea whats going on
 
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and thats not an insult to you, but YOU really ought to shut your mouth l777 if you think that THAT is style, because if may work in england (not that i know anything of it), but its totally faggot-like in the USA
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I'M IN THE USA RIGHT NOW YOU MUPPET....HOW MANY TIMES!?!

Lol yea....except when I got to house parties, the first things I normally hear from girls are, in order:

1. Cool jacket.
2. OMG your accent is hot, where are you from?
3. I love your style....etc etc,

Quite often I end up sleeping with them and I get the number literally 100% of the time, no joke.
 
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I'M IN THE USA RIGHT NOW YOU MUPPET....HOW MANY TIMES!?!

Lol yea....except when I got to house parties, the first things I normally hear from girls are, in order:

1. Cool jacket.
2. OMG your accent is hot, where are you from?
3. I love your style....etc etc,

Quite often I end up sleeping with them and I get the number literally 100% of the time, no joke.
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good

how i dress gets me alot of sex from different cuties too, wanna argue some more about it?? lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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