This girl likes me and I like her too but this girl will get mad at everything I do. Typical nagging black woman. If I tell her to call me back in an hour or something she will reply with: "you dont have time for me". I cant see her now because we on christmas break from college and she lives far from me. What do you guys think I should do with her to soften her up?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Situation
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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next her.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Oh well carry on playboy, we understand. 
But to answer your question I'd leave her alone. Who wants to deal with a chick that thrives off of drama? Now it would be different if she was just a STRONG woman but a plain and simple bitch just won't due.
But to answer your question I'd leave her alone. Who wants to deal with a chick that thrives off of drama? Now it would be different if she was just a STRONG woman but a plain and simple bitch just won't due.