This girl likes me and I like her too but this girl will get mad at everything I do. Typical nagging black woman. If I tell her to call me back in an hour or something she will reply with: "you dont have time for me". I cant see her now because we on christmas break from college and she lives far from me. What do you guys think I should do with her to soften her up?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Situation
- Thread starter Pierce
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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next her.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Oh well carry on playboy, we understand. 
But to answer your question I'd leave her alone. Who wants to deal with a chick that thrives off of drama? Now it would be different if she was just a STRONG woman but a plain and simple bitch just won't due.
But to answer your question I'd leave her alone. Who wants to deal with a chick that thrives off of drama? Now it would be different if she was just a STRONG woman but a plain and simple bitch just won't due.