This girl likes me and I like her too but this girl will get mad at everything I do. Typical nagging black woman. If I tell her to call me back in an hour or something she will reply with: "you dont have time for me". I cant see her now because we on christmas break from college and she lives far from me. What do you guys think I should do with her to soften her up?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The Situation
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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next her.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Oh well carry on playboy, we understand. 
But to answer your question I'd leave her alone. Who wants to deal with a chick that thrives off of drama? Now it would be different if she was just a STRONG woman but a plain and simple bitch just won't due.
But to answer your question I'd leave her alone. Who wants to deal with a chick that thrives off of drama? Now it would be different if she was just a STRONG woman but a plain and simple bitch just won't due.