"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The situation has gotten worse....but could get better very quickly!

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I went with Lauren to the movies today and we both knew we liked each other, so on the way home, I asked her to be my girlfriend, being so sure she'd say yes. But she says "That's really complicated now." I asked "Why" and she said "Because of Danny."

DOH!!!! Lauren said that Danny likes me a whole lot also and that shedoesn't want to hurt Danny's feelings. She said she wants to go with me, but doesn't want to hurt her friend.

This **** sucks! What should/can I do? Should I talk to Danny myself or just let them work it out?

I've really started to like Lauren and it would suck if it ends this way. Lauren said she'll try to answer my question tomorrow, but I'm wondering if it's that simple....?

I think this has officially turned into a problem!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blienk

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Ah, just forget this s*** man....freshmen b****** are drama queens who can't decide what they really want.
 
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Umm you came right out and asked a girl to be your girlfriend? Read the bible, homie. There is alot of good stuff in there. You dont ask a girl to be your girlfriend.
 
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Ya you got knocked the F out. Way to go. Next them both now before you enter the LJBF and your Don Juan status will be revoked.
 
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JCKey618

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I've read most of the Bible and what is wrong with asking a girl to be your girlfriend? Everyone was saying how she wanted to go with me and I've had girls lose interest if I wait too long to ask. Also, in my last relationship, we were making out and stuff before we were "official" and a few days leter I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said that if I hadn't asked, she would have told me we should just be friends because she doesn't like making out and stuff with a non-boyfriend.

BTW, Lauren said yes today.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Congrats!

Also asking a girl out is nothing bad. It makes sure nobody makes illusions for themselves. Then again when it just happens there's more magic in the air ^_^ .
 
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