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Master Don Juan
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That's nuts!
This isn't the norm over there but younger Japanese men do lean more to beta and have no game. Good for the guys that do have more of an Alpha nature and game. Younger girls unfortunately are getting infected by the Western entitlement virus unfortunately but still not as bad as the west and there are many domesticated, submissive girls that want a strong husband.I think you pointed this out to me in some thread, about Japanese women being an untapped market.
If they expect men to apologize like this...
But, I guess I never paid attention to how beautiful they are.
I guess I need to take a trip to Tokyo to find my future wife.
Oh man, Japan is a trip!I think you pointed this out to me in some thread, about Japanese women being an untapped market.
If they expect men to apologize like this...
But, I guess I never paid attention to how beautiful they are.
I guess I need to take a trip to Tokyo to find my future wife.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Agree brother. I've been there twice and I have a relative that used to live there.Oh man, Japan is a trip!
By far the best trip I've been on. And yes, Japanese women are on point. That was a fun trip for sure!
PS: They love American men and because most men there have no game whatsoever, you will be a King. Oh man, good times indeed.
But to @Lookatu's point, Tokyo was just like any other major city. You want to hit Kyoto, etc, maybe Osaka (although it's a bit Westernized).
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Sounds like the Japanese version of Hooters.Unfortunately the state of affairs in Japan is not what you may initially think. The traditional male-female dynamic still exists, but it's more in the remote areas. In the big cities, such as Tokyo, it is abysmal at best. In Tokyo, there are these shops called "Maid Cafes" where young, attractive girls dress up in a particular theme (maids, anime, hello kitty, etc..)and men pay to come and get served food/drinks, take pictures, and just converse with these servers.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yes, that one is the advanced level highly aggressive muff dive maneuver…Damn first pose guy was literally willing to brake his nose
It would be hilarious if the girl at the end said I got a boyfriendYes, that one is the advanced level highly aggressive muff dive maneuver…
Most of the alpha males in Japan died during ww2, the reason japan is so beta is because a lot of men were raised by betas or womem. There were japanese guys who kept fighting 30 years after the war ended. When they went back to japan they were disgusted with what happenedwas quite sad to think this was the same country where men would gladly commit Seppuku in order to not bring dishonor to their name. Again, this wasn't the case in the rural areas of Japan; but Tokyo and big cities are completely simped.
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i think the no father thing may be a cop out tho, how long would it take for a man to realize he is in control of his own life?Most of the alpha males in Japan died during ww2, the reason japan is so beta is because a lot of men were raised by betas or womem. There were japanese guys who kept fighting 30 years after the war ended. When they went back to japan they were disgusted with what happened
You say that but another perfect example is the west, a generation of men raised by their mothers and look at the damage it has done to society.i think the no father thing may be a cop out tho, how long would it take for a man to realize he is in control of his own life?
how many years and experience in life before ownership takes place
ok i cant argue with that, but it still boils down to a choice at the end of the day. you dont need a father you can get masculine energy from friends at school, or mentors. the problem is isolation. you cant shut yourself off from the world the more exposure to the real world the better off you will be male OR female.You say that but another perfect example is the west, a generation of men raised by their mothers and look at the damage it has done to society.