"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The sickness of the women in today's world

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Possessive "your" based on common use slang. Is English your second language? Not sure what the rest of the whining is about tbh, never had any issue with you.
His problem with you is that you're not opposing me. He will "wreak havoc" at anyone that is not my sworn enemy LOL
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Turns out the girl is in deep clynical depression, has tried out suicide a couple of times and has deeply rooted childhood traumas, is seeing a psychologist and a psychiatrist...That explains it, I guess.
 
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Women can get new cahk any time they want.

Now even women in their late 30’s are doing it. They have a “I don’t need a man” mentality and are just doing their own thing. If they have a bunch of single friends they don’t want to sacrifice their social life for one dude who will have ED within a few years of marriage.
100% correct. all those sex and the city type of shows brainwashed them good. 30 years ago single women in their 30s would be just obsolete...
 

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Turns out the girl is in deep clynical depression, has tried out suicide a couple of times and has deeply rooted childhood traumas, is seeing a psychologist and a psychiatrist...That explains it, I guess.
i dont know one normal person who went to psychiatrists. the medicine they get is not making them more normal at all lmao


my gf is the #one and she doesnt go tinder shes not like that
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The point is women and men often make short-sided decisions and throw away good relationships because they fail to see the big picture. The grass isn't always greener. Most of the time you simply trade one set of issues for another! I know 3 women in my past who now live with the regret from their short sided thinking.

You should not leave a relationship you are unhappy with before trying to resolve the issues. We seem to live in a society where most prefer to throw away what they have instead of attempting to resolve/fix any issues. Heaven forbid they have to look at themselves in the mirror. Afterall, the next best deal is just a message away these days!

The smart people are beginning to see the error's of these ways and how it effects men and women's ability to bond in the future.

wrong.there is no big picture if the present is gloomy. if sth is not working out u got to cut it. if you don't she will do it.
 

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What broken, screwed up women do is not really my concern....if these kinds of women dump you, all the better. It's better that happens now rather than later.

I wouldn't give a relationship that didn't work out a second thought or any consideration to a woman who failed to make the grade. It's nothing to even get sad about. You have guys that lament about this stuff for months on end after it ends. YOu have to be like women in this regard - when they end it the cord is cut. They don't sink into despair - be the same way. You are being in the way of your own happiness!
 
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