"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The sick excuse...

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Met this girl, hung out had a great time. Called her a few days later "...so I'm heading to the mall and would love a women's perspective on a few things, meet me." She was sick and couldn't. It honestly sounded legitimate.

What's the next move? I'm thinking early next week I'll call her up and and give her one more chance to hang out, but I'm having a conflict with the 'leading' approach, I don't want to seem overly anxious/interested. Should I just wait for her to call in hopes my 'ignoring' will spark her interest?

This is a great learning experience, any suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i am sure once she is well that she will call you if she is sincere.
no worries man!
 
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