"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The sick excuse...

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Met this girl, hung out had a great time. Called her a few days later "...so I'm heading to the mall and would love a women's perspective on a few things, meet me." She was sick and couldn't. It honestly sounded legitimate.

What's the next move? I'm thinking early next week I'll call her up and and give her one more chance to hang out, but I'm having a conflict with the 'leading' approach, I don't want to seem overly anxious/interested. Should I just wait for her to call in hopes my 'ignoring' will spark her interest?

This is a great learning experience, any suggestions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i am sure once she is well that she will call you if she is sincere.
no worries man!
 
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