"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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THE "she gets only two chances rule" RULE.

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In my experience I have absolutely nothing to lose.

Ghosting them a week or two can occasionally serve as a "re-set button."

In my opinion the best way is to spin plates
Yeah, good idea! I'll keep it in mind for the future.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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One of the mods, @Igetit! already made this a long time ago. Good thing to have this idea revived though. Though, I wonder how much he follows this rule still....
 

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One of the mods, @Igetit! already made this a long time ago. Good thing to have this idea revived though. Though, I wonder how much he follows this rule still....
Uhh.....I did? Huh. You'd think I'd remember making a thread like that,lol.

Think you got me confused with "f283000" and his thread called "Fellas,this will save you time and trouble",here.....

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/fellas-this-will-save-you-time-and-trouble.154043/

Yeah,his thread is the first thing I thought of when I saw this one.



 

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Uhh.....I did? Huh. You'd think I'd remember making a thread like that,lol.

Think you got me confused with "f283000" and his thread called "Fellas,this will save you time and trouble",here.....

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/fellas-this-will-save-you-time-and-trouble.154043/

Yeah,his thread is the first thing I thought of when I saw this one.


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/fellas-this-will-save-you-time-and-trouble.154043/
Oops, yeah that was the thread I was talking about. I swear on my life I remember it being you though.... Must be the Mandela effect or something.
 
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