“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The sex is getting weird...

Ragin_Asian

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Ok I met this nympho last week and I've shagged her about 5 times now (Even got a birthday shag early yesterday). Before this I've only done it once before that and that was a very drunken thing that happened. The first time I done it with this nympho was kinda awkward (drunk= floppin mostly) then the next one had to be cut short cos of "unforseen" circumstances. So the first 2 times I've done it with her was without coming. Now after that we decided to make up for it and see each other a couple of days later and have the whole evening just to shag.

Ok guys this is weird...the first 3 times I've ever f*cked was without coming...so I basically penetrated but finished without ejaculating...is that even losing your virginity???

Now back to the story...she came over and massaged me then we started getting to the grind. This time there was no disruptions or problems. I actually shagged her for about 2-3 hours just pure thrusting. I came twice though but there was a big time difference between the 2. WTF so I basically regard this as my first proper shag and I gave a performance like a f*ckin pornstar. I did about 3-4 different positions and it was like pure monkey love. She said I was definitely one of the best she had...I was stoked but didn't tell her that she was the 2nd girl I've had or the 1st time I've came from shagging. I'm really confused now...I thought the first time would be very awkward and last in like 2 mins???

The BIRTHDAY SHAG - She came over very early to give me an early morning birthday present and the same thing happened. It took me a full hour to finally come after destroying her all over my room. I really worn her out so much its not funny.

Now heres my question...why does my first stint in shagging different from other people's common experience. Maybe I've watched too many porn that I've desensitised my wang yet still have erections that last for ages while working at full pelt.

Am I gonna be a sex addict later in life?? maybe a porn star lol?? Would my sex life be normal? How come my first phase of sexual experience seemed like its out of a porn movie? Im not bragging but the girl im shagging is a devoted nympho yet she comes out feeling like a newbie with her rosey cheeks. Are humans born with pre-programed skill like this?

Please give your input or your experiences. My experience of losing my virginity seems too good to be true.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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silkkster

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hey,
i am in the same boat - i met this chick about 2 or 3 weeks ago, first night we hung out, i told her i wasnt lookin for a relationship - and she wasnt either.. so we have just been fvking (havin sex) - maybe like 3 or 4 times so far... seems she just wants a fvck buddy..

first time we had sex, we my first time (lost my virginity to her lol) - anyways - i didnt *** (come) either my first time, and i talked to some of my friends and they said it happend to them also... but since then i havent had a problem......

just be happy you are finnally getting some!
 

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Everyone is different and it sounds like all the machinery works so no worries. I think you are just watching too many movies.
 

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My opinion is that losing your virginity becomes less awkward when you are older, wiser and more "educated" (intellectually at least.)

If you have come to this site, there is a good chance you have not had great success with women in your past, but you have a good determination to overcome that problem. So you study and learn and when the time comes you are knowledgable and much more mature than those people who awkwardly lose it at age 14 after a middle school prom.

Oh and that not coming the first time thing happens to SO MANY GUYS (including me), so don't sweat it.
 

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yea i think yall got your expectations way up there, if yall watch porn on a regular basis. I mean it happens, first you see all these 9s and 9.5s, but then youre ****ing girls below your already set standards. So maybe youre not getting turned on enough
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don Juanabbe

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This is nothing new, I've banged a few pretty hot women without c*mming. Keep in mind some hotties are just plain lousy in the sack.
 
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