Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The sex is getting weird...

Ragin_Asian

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Ok I met this nympho last week and I've shagged her about 5 times now (Even got a birthday shag early yesterday). Before this I've only done it once before that and that was a very drunken thing that happened. The first time I done it with this nympho was kinda awkward (drunk= floppin mostly) then the next one had to be cut short cos of "unforseen" circumstances. So the first 2 times I've done it with her was without coming. Now after that we decided to make up for it and see each other a couple of days later and have the whole evening just to shag.

Ok guys this is weird...the first 3 times I've ever f*cked was without coming...so I basically penetrated but finished without ejaculating...is that even losing your virginity???

Now back to the story...she came over and massaged me then we started getting to the grind. This time there was no disruptions or problems. I actually shagged her for about 2-3 hours just pure thrusting. I came twice though but there was a big time difference between the 2. WTF so I basically regard this as my first proper shag and I gave a performance like a f*ckin pornstar. I did about 3-4 different positions and it was like pure monkey love. She said I was definitely one of the best she had...I was stoked but didn't tell her that she was the 2nd girl I've had or the 1st time I've came from shagging. I'm really confused now...I thought the first time would be very awkward and last in like 2 mins???

The BIRTHDAY SHAG - She came over very early to give me an early morning birthday present and the same thing happened. It took me a full hour to finally come after destroying her all over my room. I really worn her out so much its not funny.

Now heres my question...why does my first stint in shagging different from other people's common experience. Maybe I've watched too many porn that I've desensitised my wang yet still have erections that last for ages while working at full pelt.

Am I gonna be a sex addict later in life?? maybe a porn star lol?? Would my sex life be normal? How come my first phase of sexual experience seemed like its out of a porn movie? Im not bragging but the girl im shagging is a devoted nympho yet she comes out feeling like a newbie with her rosey cheeks. Are humans born with pre-programed skill like this?

Please give your input or your experiences. My experience of losing my virginity seems too good to be true.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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silkkster

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hey,
i am in the same boat - i met this chick about 2 or 3 weeks ago, first night we hung out, i told her i wasnt lookin for a relationship - and she wasnt either.. so we have just been fvking (havin sex) - maybe like 3 or 4 times so far... seems she just wants a fvck buddy..

first time we had sex, we my first time (lost my virginity to her lol) - anyways - i didnt *** (come) either my first time, and i talked to some of my friends and they said it happend to them also... but since then i havent had a problem......

just be happy you are finnally getting some!
 

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Everyone is different and it sounds like all the machinery works so no worries. I think you are just watching too many movies.
 

MrCode

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My opinion is that losing your virginity becomes less awkward when you are older, wiser and more "educated" (intellectually at least.)

If you have come to this site, there is a good chance you have not had great success with women in your past, but you have a good determination to overcome that problem. So you study and learn and when the time comes you are knowledgable and much more mature than those people who awkwardly lose it at age 14 after a middle school prom.

Oh and that not coming the first time thing happens to SO MANY GUYS (including me), so don't sweat it.
 

undesputable

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yea i think yall got your expectations way up there, if yall watch porn on a regular basis. I mean it happens, first you see all these 9s and 9.5s, but then youre ****ing girls below your already set standards. So maybe youre not getting turned on enough
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don Juanabbe

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This is nothing new, I've banged a few pretty hot women without c*mming. Keep in mind some hotties are just plain lousy in the sack.
 
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