"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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werdmaster

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Theres this hb9 that i see once or twice in the hall during a school day. Whenever, I pass her I see her give that quick glance at me.

So I was thinking where a good place to start is.
Im pretty confident in a smile or wink.

But wat reaction from her should I look for after I do this?

Most importantly, how am I going to start talking to her. Shes a senior (me a sophmore) and I feel very intimadted to go up to her. Espcially because shes always around her other friends, one of wich i know is a ****blcok.

I have like 14 days of school left, and I'm pretty sure this chick likes me. I really need some advice, cuz if i dont do this I'll probably never see her again, and my oppurtunity will be lost forever.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is a pretty difficult situation. In the school from which I recently graduated, it was common for guys to date below their age, but not girls. Girls are normally so obsessed with social standing that they won't consider dating someone who is even one grade level below them. What makes the situation even more complicated is that since she is a senior, she will likely be going off to college this fall, possibly out of state, and thus will be reluctant to get with anybody, even for a Short Term Relationship.

But if you still think it feasible, just stop thinking about it and do it. If she's with her little group of friends (as girls always are in high school), just take a deep breath, walk up, say "Hello ladies, I would like to borrow (insert girl's name here) for a moment." Then pull her off to the side and get the digits. If she doesn't give them up, oh well. At least you won't have to live with any "what ifs."
 

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Ultima hit the nail right on the head. If you want to get to know this girl, just put all of your fears aside and just do it. Look at it this way, if it doesn't work out, she'll be gone pretty soon and you'll probably never see her again. You're in a pretty good position though. I don't know all that many girls that are willing to go out with guys that are younger than them. Just go for it man.
 

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do it tomorrow.

you can't wait for the right chance because it will never come. like ultima said you have to go to her. If you do it now, and she rejects you, sure people are going to give you crap but it usually dies after a week or two. Do not do it on the last day of school. People will remember that and give you crap next year.

You have to do it soon. Good luck man.
 

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Just fking go up and talk to her. I just had a similar situation with a senior about 2 days ago. She was a confident hb9 cheerleader. To make the approach even harder i knew she had a boyfriend who she liked a lot. But i heard too many of friends saying how hot she was to not try to talk to her before the year is over, especially since i got a lot of eye contact (one time over 10 seconds)

Well anyway at the end of spanish class (the only class i have with her) i just grabbed my balls (not literally) remembered who was the man and sat next to her and started a convo for about 5 minutes. Unfortunately time ran out durring on convo and i didnt make a number close, so ill try for that tomarrow if i see her.
Oh yea and i did this as a 15 year old freshman, even though i know nothing will happen with us, at least i know i have balls and balls bigger than my friend's at that =)

Hmm this was the first girl that gave me that nervous or excited feeling ever since my afc days.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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