"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Theres this hb9 that i see once or twice in the hall during a school day. Whenever, I pass her I see her give that quick glance at me.

So I was thinking where a good place to start is.
Im pretty confident in a smile or wink.

But wat reaction from her should I look for after I do this?

Most importantly, how am I going to start talking to her. Shes a senior (me a sophmore) and I feel very intimadted to go up to her. Espcially because shes always around her other friends, one of wich i know is a ****blcok.

I have like 14 days of school left, and I'm pretty sure this chick likes me. I really need some advice, cuz if i dont do this I'll probably never see her again, and my oppurtunity will be lost forever.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is a pretty difficult situation. In the school from which I recently graduated, it was common for guys to date below their age, but not girls. Girls are normally so obsessed with social standing that they won't consider dating someone who is even one grade level below them. What makes the situation even more complicated is that since she is a senior, she will likely be going off to college this fall, possibly out of state, and thus will be reluctant to get with anybody, even for a Short Term Relationship.

But if you still think it feasible, just stop thinking about it and do it. If she's with her little group of friends (as girls always are in high school), just take a deep breath, walk up, say "Hello ladies, I would like to borrow (insert girl's name here) for a moment." Then pull her off to the side and get the digits. If she doesn't give them up, oh well. At least you won't have to live with any "what ifs."
 

Jerky Boi

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Ultima hit the nail right on the head. If you want to get to know this girl, just put all of your fears aside and just do it. Look at it this way, if it doesn't work out, she'll be gone pretty soon and you'll probably never see her again. You're in a pretty good position though. I don't know all that many girls that are willing to go out with guys that are younger than them. Just go for it man.
 

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do it tomorrow.

you can't wait for the right chance because it will never come. like ultima said you have to go to her. If you do it now, and she rejects you, sure people are going to give you crap but it usually dies after a week or two. Do not do it on the last day of school. People will remember that and give you crap next year.

You have to do it soon. Good luck man.
 

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Just fking go up and talk to her. I just had a similar situation with a senior about 2 days ago. She was a confident hb9 cheerleader. To make the approach even harder i knew she had a boyfriend who she liked a lot. But i heard too many of friends saying how hot she was to not try to talk to her before the year is over, especially since i got a lot of eye contact (one time over 10 seconds)

Well anyway at the end of spanish class (the only class i have with her) i just grabbed my balls (not literally) remembered who was the man and sat next to her and started a convo for about 5 minutes. Unfortunately time ran out durring on convo and i didnt make a number close, so ill try for that tomarrow if i see her.
Oh yea and i did this as a 15 year old freshman, even though i know nothing will happen with us, at least i know i have balls and balls bigger than my friend's at that =)

Hmm this was the first girl that gave me that nervous or excited feeling ever since my afc days.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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