"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Secret....

Eyes_Of_Fire

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Alright all you keyboard jockies out there. First of all, I haven't been on this board too long but I can already see a trend. There are a thousand experts in here, with a thousand posts each, and yet I still read how they are too shy to do a cold approach, then they say they are gonna just do it, then the next day just a bunch of lame excuses. Well lemme tell you first hand. It doesn't matter how much you think you know, you don't know something until you experience it. If some expert tells you to go up to a girl, tell her she has the prettiest smile you've ever seen, uh, well actually the 4th prettiest, are you gonna sit around thinkin about using the line, or are you gonna stop mind f**kin it and get your @$$ out there and see if it really works?

I read someone's lay report, and the aspiring DJ says, "well what did you say? How did you act? Did you grab her @$$? OMG if only I could be THAT smooth!" Well how the hell do you think he got that smooth? By sitting infront of a computer all night, strokin his monkey to porn, and reading how fellas get the girl you were just strokin it to?

If you find a line you like, go try it. If it doesn't work, try somethin else. I suggest you Jockies find something that can teach how to solve problems; like chess. If you are playing your friend, and he is whoopin your @$$, are you gonna keep doing the same thing over and over? Once you start changing it up, trying new things, seeing what works and what doesn't, thats when your game starts to improve and you can actually win some. The social scene really isn't much different. So stop being a pvssy and get your ass out there and talk to some people, I don't care if its some old hag in the grocery store; you aren't fVckin her, you're talkin to her.

Eyes_Of_Fire
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So pimp its scary

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Welcome to the board.

Not all the people just talk outta their ass... I don't claim to be an expert, but I still manage to hold my own.

The board would be alot slower because not all field reports are worth posting.
 

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Eyes_Of _Fire i agree with most of what you said but dont tell these guys to go try out new lines they will probably get rejected.

You got to change your attitude if your having no success THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS MAGIC LINES (i recomend reading David DeAngelos Double Your Dating)

That being said welcome to the board Eyes_Of _Fire.

Im going to post a few more field reports make them intresting to give people and idea. Not that im a expert but im pretty dam good :cool:
 
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