"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Secret....

Eyes_Of_Fire

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Alright all you keyboard jockies out there. First of all, I haven't been on this board too long but I can already see a trend. There are a thousand experts in here, with a thousand posts each, and yet I still read how they are too shy to do a cold approach, then they say they are gonna just do it, then the next day just a bunch of lame excuses. Well lemme tell you first hand. It doesn't matter how much you think you know, you don't know something until you experience it. If some expert tells you to go up to a girl, tell her she has the prettiest smile you've ever seen, uh, well actually the 4th prettiest, are you gonna sit around thinkin about using the line, or are you gonna stop mind f**kin it and get your @$$ out there and see if it really works?

I read someone's lay report, and the aspiring DJ says, "well what did you say? How did you act? Did you grab her @$$? OMG if only I could be THAT smooth!" Well how the hell do you think he got that smooth? By sitting infront of a computer all night, strokin his monkey to porn, and reading how fellas get the girl you were just strokin it to?

If you find a line you like, go try it. If it doesn't work, try somethin else. I suggest you Jockies find something that can teach how to solve problems; like chess. If you are playing your friend, and he is whoopin your @$$, are you gonna keep doing the same thing over and over? Once you start changing it up, trying new things, seeing what works and what doesn't, thats when your game starts to improve and you can actually win some. The social scene really isn't much different. So stop being a pvssy and get your ass out there and talk to some people, I don't care if its some old hag in the grocery store; you aren't fVckin her, you're talkin to her.

Eyes_Of_Fire
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So pimp its scary

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Welcome to the board.

Not all the people just talk outta their ass... I don't claim to be an expert, but I still manage to hold my own.

The board would be alot slower because not all field reports are worth posting.
 

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Eyes_Of _Fire i agree with most of what you said but dont tell these guys to go try out new lines they will probably get rejected.

You got to change your attitude if your having no success THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS MAGIC LINES (i recomend reading David DeAngelos Double Your Dating)

That being said welcome to the board Eyes_Of _Fire.

Im going to post a few more field reports make them intresting to give people and idea. Not that im a expert but im pretty dam good :cool:
 
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