"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Secret to getting a lady to open up to you...

MMA Juan

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In my experiences, i have realised that there are obviously many ways to getting a girl up to you. However, one of the things that works time after time with me, is making them reach a level with you where they'll truly open up to you...

This is bringing out their "Inner Child"

Every girl and lady has an inner child. some girls are naturally playful, and others act quite sophisticated and serious. but doesn't matter what category they fit into, all have that inner child, and its up to you to bring that out.

Now why do we bring out that inner child? once you get and reach the rapport level with a girl that she feels comfortable to say stupid childish sh!t and be playful with you, it does a number of things.

firstly, she'll feel comfortable enough with you to start opening up to you on things she wouldn't tell others. this is a good thing because it will get both of you alot more closer. obviously it is up to you to make sure from there you don't get into the friend category, but that can be stopped by the next benefit.

And that next benefit is the use of kino. bringing out the inner child enables the ease of comfortably using kino whenever you want. if you get to that communication comfort level, its easy to start using kino because comfort is already there. i cannot stress enough however to keep up the kino, because this is what will seperate you from being a friend, she will see you as a lover who has excellent communication skills instead of a friend with great communication skills.

Thirdly, by bringing out the inner child, you will portray your 'natural confidence'. And that is your confidence to be able to play back with her. you showin that you're comfortable enough to play back, give her sh!t, tickle her, tackle her to her bed and wrestle, pick her up with a piggy back, all demonstrates your confidence in not givin a flyin fvck on what she thinks of you havin an inner child. you will show your confident enough to be you and not care.

And lastly, the fun aspect. Not everyone can bring out a girls inner child. But a Don Juan can... when she thinks of you, and when she knows when she'll be around you or with you next, she's going to know that she's gonna have fun with you, because you've brought her to that physical and emotional fun level by bringin out the inner child. and without you knowin it, you've automatically registered yourself as being associated as fun. positive and fun energy breeds postive and fun energy- that's what every girl wants, whether she's serious or easy goin. That people, is my secret to a lady opening up to you.

Peace...

-MMA Juan
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MMA Juan

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Cheers bro. That was one of my ideas anyway, what's anybody's else's feedback on how to get a girl to open up to you? Lets see what you playaz have got.
 
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