"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The secret to a woman's power

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Women have no power!!

It is the effeminates and weak men who have given up on their manhood
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
The secret to a woman's power is that they are given power by weak men due to their beauty.

being a dj you are taught to be a jerk, to treat women like bytches. You are doing the opposite of what the rest of the population of male afcs do which is treat women like queens based on their beauty. Women only have power because weak men give it to them.
Joe nailed it.
 
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No Joe - their beauty is not it - nor is it their vagina!! There are plenty of ugly hors out here who have power -- the overwhelming majority of women today are not at all beautiful!! So beauty does not weaken men!!

It is our attraction to them as women at the spiritual and genetic level that is the gravitational pull!!

However, men today are manufactured as effeminates and women as hors (masculine) -- thus the role reversals of power and dominance -- female (masculine Hor) over the effeminate (emasculated male) ---- simple, very simple!!
 
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The secret to a woman's power,..

V-A-G-I-N-A

nuff said.
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
No Joe - their beauty is not it - nor it nor is it their vagina!! There are plenty of ugly hors out here -- the overwhelming majority of women today are not at all beautiful!! So beauty does not weaken men!!

It is our attraction to them as women at the spiritual and genetic level that is the gravitational pull!! Men today are manufactured as effeminates and women as hors (masculine) -- thus the role reversals of power and dominance -- female (masculine Hor) over the effeminate (emasculated male) ---- simple, very simple!!
For real man. I need to have 5 bytches waiting to do whatever I ask of them, not the other way around!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The strength of woman is inversely proportional to the weakness of man.

Have a nice day.

:)
 

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Originally posted by Survivor
Have a nice day.

:)
Wow here's a name that doesn't show up very often :)
 
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If this was said 40 years ago "The secret to woman's power" men would have said "What power over men?"

Something changed in the last few decades -- I wonder what that was?? Hmmmmm?
 

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The only power that someone has over you is that which you have given them. That being said, beautiful women really only have one thing and that is the power of choice.

Basically its just supply and demand. Very few really attractive women (sellers) and a whole lot of intersted guys (buyers). Naturally, if a girl is in demand, she is going to make the most of the situation. So if all things are equal, your odds of getting a girl go down the hotter she is.

The way around this is to refuse to play the game on her terms. Yeah, so she has a lot of interest from other guys, is that really revelant to me? If she wants to know me, it wll be on my terms.

I'd rather die on standing on my feet than live on knees
 

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Originally posted by cinephile
The only power that someone has over you is that which you have given them. That being said, beautiful women really only have one thing and that is the power of choice.

Basically its just supply and demand. Very few really attractive women (sellers) and a whole lot of intersted guys (buyers). Naturally, if a girl is in demand, she is going to make the most of the situation. So if all things are equal, your odds of getting a girl go down the hotter she is.

The way around this is to refuse to play the game on her terms. Yeah, so she has a lot of interest from other guys, is that really revelant to me? If she wants to know me, it wll be on my terms.

I'd rather die on standing on my feet than live on knees
I like this.

Its ironic that you post this on a forum which essentially teaches guys how to approach every attractive female you see. In a way, some of the stuff that is preached is very misleading because it assumes that the girl has little to no interaction with any guys at all, and that she is open to game.

The truth is, almost every attractive female i know of is being gamed ALL THE TIME by every single guy they run into.

An attractive girl will have sex guaranteed from her pick of the 20 current guys that are chasing her.

And for the majority of us guys, sex is sporadic and very occasional.

I admire the top dogs that have the power of choice; leaders, rappers, millionares. hi quality puzzy is readily available to them, while the rest of us scrap for HB7's and the occasional HB8 with dry spells of six months.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This is a really interesting thread: why really women have so much power? Do they really? What is the secret they know to hold it?

Lets think: do women want something from men too? Sure. Probably something much more substantial than just sex, and compliments.
And still it appears as women are much more "valuable" on the market than men.

Why?

Maybe because :
a) there are too few good looking women? It is true for North America: lots of seriously overweight women who dont care about anything... thats is so easy for them just to lose weight and get back to the dating market.. No. They want to be big. ok.

b) There is a surplus of good looking men with good jobs? Yes, but it is not that impressive of a surplus.

c) There is a surplus of good looking women with good jobs? Oh yes.. baby :) Nowdays women tend to occupy high paying jobs more and more...and by doing so they just take themselves out of the competition: they have a really hard time to find a man who "fit" them moneywise and look wise.

Lets verify this: did women have so much power say 50 years ago? No way! But today they do! And it seems it is all due to these "new, revolutionary" trends in business and consumerism.
 

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completely agree. Maybe when the AFCs are the only ones drooling after hot women and real men are always seeing through their bullsh!t facade, they will get the message.
 
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