"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hip Hop, Reggae, and Reggaeton music



Honestly, im not gonna lie, i have felt shytty, depressed, not social at times here and there, and it seems like EVERY time i put music like this on, and BLAST IT, it totally puts me back in the groove and it just gives me the mindset of "oh yea im a ****in player im da shyt u lil b1tches aint nothin I AM KING **** U ALL"

this kinda attitude helps confidence 10fold........not gonna lie im probly confident only 80% of the time, the other 20% i feel like shyt, basically i dont even know why

but this is just like a little tip...........even if u are not into this kinda music, GET INTO IT - this is the biggest player donjuan kinda music, cuz its all about being a dominant male who tells little sex b1tches how to shake their ass for u, honestly if u just listen to the right shyt this will put u into a perfect mindset

ever heard of "pregaming music" - this is IT

fyi i was a virgin loser before when i was 17 when i didnt even like this kinda music............if u are a loser right now too, and u dont like this music, there may be a connection there, no joke


im here to help people like me, cuz honestly even if its TOUGH LOVE, it still makes me feel good that i can help certain little nerds get better, so no flamin k? good :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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As ridiculous as your post sounds. It's true.

Listening to "Gentleman" or "Seed" always gets me pumped up.
 

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I gotta say that I think different music does it for different people. This stuff is good and I will listen to it, but it doesn't make me feel more male in any way. For that extra kick of testosterone I turn to The Rolling Stones, Motorhead, Pantera, Kyuss, etc. I don't play that stuff to seduce a girl too often, but it gets my blood pumping and makes me feel like I can get any girl I want.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The reason music can have this affect is because it takes your focus off of yourself and all the thoughts you have. It's like a meditation, it's the same if you play a sport, do some kind of hobby that requries concentration, anything where you are taken out of that cycle of living in your own head.

For me, music does all that. Not the biggest reggae fan, but I have no problem with it. I like some hip hop, and house music. That's what works for me. It's got something to do with the beat synching up with your heartbeat, it's like being hypnotized or something. It's fricking sweet.
 

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ToughLove said:
Hip Hop, Reggae, and Reggaeton music
Hip Hop and Reggaeton I agree. Reggae on the other hand, no. Unless you're mistaking reggae for dancehall. Reggae is more laid back beach bum type of music and lyrics are going to be more about love. Dancehall is all about bump 'n' grind.
 

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Pig Destroyer \m/ FTW
 

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speakeasy said:
Hip Hop and Reggaeton I agree. Reggae on the other hand, no. Unless you're mistaking reggae for dancehall. Reggae is more laid back beach bum type of music and lyrics are going to be more about love. Dancehall is all about bump 'n' grind.

yea not old classic reggae, but RAGGA and DANCEHALL is the absolute best for me to get pumped and confident instantly even if im havin a bad day - stuff like Sean Paul, Vykz Kartel, and all the Riddims that make u just wanna say "come ova here shawti i want ur pum pum on my khaki *****!"

LOL
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heart Break Kid said:
Don't ever doubt rock! Get "It's no good" by Depeche Mode. The lyrics are very powerful.
I always thought Depeche Mode was for wierdo's who smoke clove cigarettes and put on eyeliner then lay in the dark amusing themselves with razor blade slices on thier forearms?

And, Depeche Mode is in no way fvcking rock. It's melancholy, suicidal fluff.

Boston, The Doors, Zeppelin, that's rock.
 

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Yes Reggeaton is music with very explicit sexual lyrics, why do you think, girls love it?? Do you really think it's just because of the rythm?, please...
 
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