"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hip Hop, Reggae, and Reggaeton music



Honestly, im not gonna lie, i have felt shytty, depressed, not social at times here and there, and it seems like EVERY time i put music like this on, and BLAST IT, it totally puts me back in the groove and it just gives me the mindset of "oh yea im a ****in player im da shyt u lil b1tches aint nothin I AM KING **** U ALL"

this kinda attitude helps confidence 10fold........not gonna lie im probly confident only 80% of the time, the other 20% i feel like shyt, basically i dont even know why

but this is just like a little tip...........even if u are not into this kinda music, GET INTO IT - this is the biggest player donjuan kinda music, cuz its all about being a dominant male who tells little sex b1tches how to shake their ass for u, honestly if u just listen to the right shyt this will put u into a perfect mindset

ever heard of "pregaming music" - this is IT

fyi i was a virgin loser before when i was 17 when i didnt even like this kinda music............if u are a loser right now too, and u dont like this music, there may be a connection there, no joke


im here to help people like me, cuz honestly even if its TOUGH LOVE, it still makes me feel good that i can help certain little nerds get better, so no flamin k? good :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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As ridiculous as your post sounds. It's true.

Listening to "Gentleman" or "Seed" always gets me pumped up.
 

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I gotta say that I think different music does it for different people. This stuff is good and I will listen to it, but it doesn't make me feel more male in any way. For that extra kick of testosterone I turn to The Rolling Stones, Motorhead, Pantera, Kyuss, etc. I don't play that stuff to seduce a girl too often, but it gets my blood pumping and makes me feel like I can get any girl I want.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The reason music can have this affect is because it takes your focus off of yourself and all the thoughts you have. It's like a meditation, it's the same if you play a sport, do some kind of hobby that requries concentration, anything where you are taken out of that cycle of living in your own head.

For me, music does all that. Not the biggest reggae fan, but I have no problem with it. I like some hip hop, and house music. That's what works for me. It's got something to do with the beat synching up with your heartbeat, it's like being hypnotized or something. It's fricking sweet.
 

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ToughLove said:
Hip Hop, Reggae, and Reggaeton music
Hip Hop and Reggaeton I agree. Reggae on the other hand, no. Unless you're mistaking reggae for dancehall. Reggae is more laid back beach bum type of music and lyrics are going to be more about love. Dancehall is all about bump 'n' grind.
 

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Pig Destroyer \m/ FTW
 

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speakeasy said:
Hip Hop and Reggaeton I agree. Reggae on the other hand, no. Unless you're mistaking reggae for dancehall. Reggae is more laid back beach bum type of music and lyrics are going to be more about love. Dancehall is all about bump 'n' grind.

yea not old classic reggae, but RAGGA and DANCEHALL is the absolute best for me to get pumped and confident instantly even if im havin a bad day - stuff like Sean Paul, Vykz Kartel, and all the Riddims that make u just wanna say "come ova here shawti i want ur pum pum on my khaki *****!"

LOL
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Heart Break Kid said:
Don't ever doubt rock! Get "It's no good" by Depeche Mode. The lyrics are very powerful.
I always thought Depeche Mode was for wierdo's who smoke clove cigarettes and put on eyeliner then lay in the dark amusing themselves with razor blade slices on thier forearms?

And, Depeche Mode is in no way fvcking rock. It's melancholy, suicidal fluff.

Boston, The Doors, Zeppelin, that's rock.
 

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Yes Reggeaton is music with very explicit sexual lyrics, why do you think, girls love it?? Do you really think it's just because of the rythm?, please...
 
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