"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"The Secret" (Free Google Video)

musclyjerk

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"The Secret" is the biggest load of hogwash ever - to take it seriously is to enter a fantasy world not too dissimilar from that of a small child.

Belief is a strong influence on your actions and behavior - and that's it.

There is no need to wrap it up in some new age B.S - though I commend the people who created it as they have made millions.

The Muscly Jerk
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AudiTy

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musclyjerk said:
"The Secret" is the biggest load of hogwash ever - to take it seriously is to enter a fantasy world not too dissimilar from that of a small child.

Belief is a strong influence on your actions and behavior - and that's it.

There is no need to wrap it up in some new age B.S - though I commend the people who created it as they have made millions.

The Muscly Jerk
Wow.

First of all, I agree that they have sugar coated the production of this video,
maybe a little too much. But how can you claim that the principles documented
within are "hogwash", as you so eloquently worded it? It might be "new age"
in appearance, but the principle of auto-suggestion and the law of attraction
has been around for centuries. The fact is, whether you call it 'The Secret',
OR the law of attraction, it WORKS. Whether you believe it does or not.

To take it seriously is to change your life. Belief is indeed a strong influence
on behaviour, you're absolutely right, but not everybody knows how to
develop belief, nevermind transform it into material possesions. The boom in
self-development has called for advancement on these principles, which have
now become more defined, more applicable and a hell of a lot more impacting
on whomevers life they are used upon.

Anyway, I'm out.

-AudiTy =o
 

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This applies to people. If you are happy people want to be around and everyone likes you and respects you.
 
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