"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The search function doesn't work properly. Yourself
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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superman2k6
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brucevangeorge
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
legolas
Master Don Juan
Yeah type 'site:sosuave.net yourself' on google sans the quotesOriginally posted by brucevangeorge
Use google to search the site. There used to be a trick for it.
diablo
Master Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=474494&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
Solution 2: Use google. i.e. "site:sosuave.net yourself"
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=site:sosuave.net+yourself
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
MVP, I hope you read this... would be insulting to yourself if you didn't read everything people tried to teach you.Originally posted by MVP
For example, I typed in the word: yourself.
It says there were no matches found.
I'm betting you right now, let's put money on this. You lied to me, so we'll make it a 2:1 bet in my favour. You couldn't finish the search. You clogged up the search engines time, people say yourself all of the ****ing time on this site... so the engine has to go through every page and give you some 500,000 posts with the words yourself. If it takes more than 30 seconds I think it returns saying please refine your search. You are search too broad of a subject, why waste your own time trying to find a good page that says 'yourself in it"