"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
The search function doesn't work properly. Yourself
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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superman2k6
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brucevangeorge
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
legolas
Master Don Juan
Yeah type 'site:sosuave.net yourself' on google sans the quotesOriginally posted by brucevangeorge
Use google to search the site. There used to be a trick for it.
diablo
Master Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=474494&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
Solution 2: Use google. i.e. "site:sosuave.net yourself"
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=site:sosuave.net+yourself
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
MVP, I hope you read this... would be insulting to yourself if you didn't read everything people tried to teach you.Originally posted by MVP
For example, I typed in the word: yourself.
It says there were no matches found.
I'm betting you right now, let's put money on this. You lied to me, so we'll make it a 2:1 bet in my favour. You couldn't finish the search. You clogged up the search engines time, people say yourself all of the ****ing time on this site... so the engine has to go through every page and give you some 500,000 posts with the words yourself. If it takes more than 30 seconds I think it returns saying please refine your search. You are search too broad of a subject, why waste your own time trying to find a good page that says 'yourself in it"