"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm working on others as we speak...5-10, in fact. I just don't want to have an awkward whatever (be friendship or more than that)...she is just that cool.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Am going to send a note her way...this sound too desperate? You guys have any additions or deletions?


Haven't talked to you all week...sorry about that. Is everything OK with you? Contrary to what you may think, I really do care. I said what I did because I don't want you to feel awkward whenever you are around me.
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Pre-Marital footsie is a SIN.

You blew it because you were too timid, and have issues about sex. Or she just enjoyed the attention. How else do you explain your rejection by someone who had initially shown interest, albeit toe-based? Oh, you rationalize that it's because her dads a pastor and she's not allowed to date? Sorry, that's not it, though she gave you a big clue about with her comment about her bubbly personality leading a lot of men on.

Now you're 'in love' with her and will no doubt ignore any advice that says to stop thinking of her as an innocent little flower who needs your protection and start treating her as a ripe young muffin in need of a good f*cking.

My advice is to forget this christianity nonsense and stop being ashamed of your male lust. Or fuel your hopeless oneitis with delusions of her angelness and watch as she finds a bad-boy to 'save.'
 
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The Shocker

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what the fvck...you are obsessing about her now. Stop that. You and her are DONE. Period. No excuses. No more posts about what happened yesterday or last week. It's over. There are no indicating signs, because there is nothing to indicate.

You do not love her. You just want her more because she rejected you. It's a natural response. We all want what we can't have. Forget this girl, and concentrate on working the others.

Your main mistake as I see it was not enough kino on the date. Like somebody said before, she's looking for a real man who will TAKE her, not a polite nice guy, even though that's what she'll say and it seems like.
 
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