"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm working on others as we speak...5-10, in fact. I just don't want to have an awkward whatever (be friendship or more than that)...she is just that cool.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Am going to send a note her way...this sound too desperate? You guys have any additions or deletions?


Haven't talked to you all week...sorry about that. Is everything OK with you? Contrary to what you may think, I really do care. I said what I did because I don't want you to feel awkward whenever you are around me.
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Pre-Marital footsie is a SIN.

You blew it because you were too timid, and have issues about sex. Or she just enjoyed the attention. How else do you explain your rejection by someone who had initially shown interest, albeit toe-based? Oh, you rationalize that it's because her dads a pastor and she's not allowed to date? Sorry, that's not it, though she gave you a big clue about with her comment about her bubbly personality leading a lot of men on.

Now you're 'in love' with her and will no doubt ignore any advice that says to stop thinking of her as an innocent little flower who needs your protection and start treating her as a ripe young muffin in need of a good f*cking.

My advice is to forget this christianity nonsense and stop being ashamed of your male lust. Or fuel your hopeless oneitis with delusions of her angelness and watch as she finds a bad-boy to 'save.'
 
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what the fvck...you are obsessing about her now. Stop that. You and her are DONE. Period. No excuses. No more posts about what happened yesterday or last week. It's over. There are no indicating signs, because there is nothing to indicate.

You do not love her. You just want her more because she rejected you. It's a natural response. We all want what we can't have. Forget this girl, and concentrate on working the others.

Your main mistake as I see it was not enough kino on the date. Like somebody said before, she's looking for a real man who will TAKE her, not a polite nice guy, even though that's what she'll say and it seems like.
 
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