“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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********..the saga continues lol

madgame

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Sup?Id like to know how yall would translate this ********. Its something that happened to me in my..well on my way to becoming a DJ and understanding the female brain lol and I know I made some mistakes, just looking for a translation though. wanna know if im right on the track with my guesses ;-)


(Girl shows really high interest level, dropping hints she wanted to have me as a b/f even once said it when I didnt want 2 yet and then I ask her what wassup with the 2 of us (BIIIG mistake I know lol but thats all in the past, still its my favorite ******** conversation))

Her: "No I dont want a relationship from you. I cant help it I just think youre sooo hot, but I just dont have a crush on you. And..u never said u wanted a relationship"

Me: "So you never wanted to hook up?"

Her:" Yes I did..but then..I just realized I didnt."

Me: "When did u realize that? cause last night u still said u wanted to be with me every night from now on and showed me around in your house cause u said I was gonna be there a lot in future the next morning..besides u had said u wanted it to become something serious before, dindt u?

Her: "I dunno when..I just did..and..I wouldnt have minded to spend every night with you...but u cant really use the "Iwant it to become somethign serious" part as an argument..cause..we have said so many things we didnt really mean before.."

Me: "Maybe u should just give ur feelings a little time to grow, cause my feelings for you aint that strong yet either, with me they usually take some time to develop and grow stronger, but Id like to give it a shot"

Her: "Yeah..its the same with me, but I dont wanna have a b/f if I dont have a crush on him..u understand?"

Me: "Aight fine. So lets just stop this whole thing and cut contact. If u dont have a crush you cant help it, but I dont need u as a friend either"

Her (really sad and stuff): "Ok..if thats what u have to do..sorry for hurting your feelings. I really didnt mean to....I dunno......maybe in a few days or weeks Ill think: damn I really shouldnt have let this guy go away..I shoulda hooked up with him, but I dont wanna give you any hope :/"

less than 24 hours later:

Her: "I cried the whole night through, cause you just mean soooo much to me"

Me: "Well sorry but I dont get you. U say im reaaaaly hot and I mean soooo much to you, but you dont have a crush on me. How about takin a lil break and then well just start dating again and if u r feelings become stronger well hook up and if not well just let it be?"

Her: "Lets just say...well start over again and see what happens ok?"
 

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You: Are you attracted to me?
Her: Blah blah blah... No.

Low IL, masked with lots of flufftalk so she doesn't feel so bad.
 

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You're Mr. Right-NOW.

She's keeping her options open... Wants to be with you, but wants it ok if she meets some one better...

No offense, but it's a classic flake move...She's a flake...
 

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Yep. Sounds like a flake.

Have to say you handled it well though Madgame - total control. :)

The key part seems to me to be:

'maybe in a few days or weeks Ill think: damn I really shouldnt have let this guy go away..I shoulda hooked up with him, but I dont wanna give you any hope :/"

This sounds to me like she wants YOU to hang around waiting while SHE makes her mind up if she likes you or not, and when she found out you weren't prepared to do that, it blew her circuitry somewhat.
 
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