"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The sad realization that there are only two kinds of women...

Korrupt

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1.) Hot, but no/bad personality. A girl who you want to wife up for her looks, but that you can't imagine actually being in a relationship with. These are usually your attention hoes/bullsh!tters/flakes/etc. who are being pursued by a ton of guys.

2.) Very average/below average, but doesn't play games and is actually... Fun. A girl who you wish you were physically attracted to so you could wife her up. If you're "above" her on the looks scale she'll probably be all over you.

Some outliers might be girls who used to be really heavy (fat), but then lost a lot of weight and got into shape. Girls like this might actually have both (not all). There are also girls who are below average AND have no personality. Possibly from bad parenting.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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icantgetlaid

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I agree completely with the OP.

It's so hard to find that combination of a girl who absolutely adores you/is fun to be around/really wants to make you happy ... who is also above your league looks wise.
 

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you are searching in wrong places and not going out enough
 

devilkingx2

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if a girl was perfect then why would she be single? obviously you're going to have to compromise on something lol. (i suggest compromising on looks)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrgoodstuff

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How do you think pro athletes look at "hot girls"?

They look at em like hoez, because they are all after the same thing. They don't think she looks too good or out of league.
 

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no ***** is out of my league
 

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The trick is to get the hot ones young.

If they are 18 they may not been to ****ed in the head yet.
 

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There are 4 basic types of women. How they behave fall on a quad chart between Low/High Self-Esteem and Low/High Sex Drive. Read "Practical Guide to Female Psychology for the Practical Man." All you need to know is in that book if you are confused by female behavior. The book isn't going to tell you what to do with this knowledge, you have to learn that on your own with practice.

The important thing to know is how she behaves is a function of her general type and what you do. All women are attracted to the same male characteristics, but the importance of each will change based on how you show up.
 
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