Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Sad Reality

BluEyes

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For those of you older Juans or those with kids, I'm sure you could relate to this article:

Suspicious minds make being a man no longer child's play

If every man has to explain himself when he is with children, if he has to have a police check to volunteer his time, if he has to deal with suspicious looks because he has taken his niece to the park, if his daughter's friends aren't allowed to sleep over, then we have become a society that is prepared to sacrifice some trust for its vigilance.
One would feel sorry for the children, to be denied innocent experience with adults. These days we're raising a generation of cold, emotionless children.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DarthAngel707

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Yes, sadly because of the mistakes of a few fathers who have molested children or even their own daughters, other males must also be held under suspicious eyes.

Indeed if you spend too much time with children or even your own children people may suspect you as a pedophile. Did you know there are fathers who photograph their children nude and say that because they are nudists they can do such a thing?

I notice if anyone ever looks at a kid especially a young girl for a second too long automatically they will be accused of being a pedo and I don't blame them, I blame those real pedos out there who have caused all this.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Yet another byproduct of the constant demonization of anything masculine for the past 50 years. I have a 10 y.o. daughter I'd give my life for without a thought and I'M the one under suspicion for no other reason than I was born male.
 

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The sad reality is that the author who wrote this article might be your average feminized joe.

Without seeing what the author looks like, how he talks and how he interacts with people/kids I cannot pass judgement or my prejudice regarding his claim that he is an unfair target. Majority of pedo's (or those that precieve to be) tend to be reclusive, anti-social, overweight, relate more with kids then adults, and essentially a sad looking human being. Michael Jackson is the ultimate poster boy.

I hardly if ever heard or seen any positive masculine men being accused of being pedo's, because normally the shoe doesn't fit for a reason. I don't have any kids so I can't speak for myself but I don't have any desire to pick up and cuddle with a strange boy/girl (unlike the author). Personally I find kids to be annoying and I am still perplexed whenever I see a female gushing over a precieved "cute" stranger's baby/kid.
 
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