"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The S.E.E princeple

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Can any body guess what this simply three letter acronym means?... any body? ok ok I give up:


S. smile

E. eye contact

E. enthusiasm

Smile

By smile I don't mean that cheesy cool-aid smile. I mean the sly, slick half smile that you may see Brad Pitt or Mat Damon flaunt there pretty white teeth.

Eye Contact

keep eye contact. When you are speaking with someone keep your head up, with your eyes forward. Often most people focus there eyes on ether the right or the left eye of the person they are speaking with how ever like to focus on both eyes. In my experience it keeps you more focused on them.

Enthusiasm

Have that energy. Not that cheesy entertainer energy but that up beat you love life feeling. Its magnetic when you have that pep in your step it allows people to want to be around you.

try this stuff out and S.E.E. if it works out in your favor
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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