Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The S.E.E princeple

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Can any body guess what this simply three letter acronym means?... any body? ok ok I give up:


S. smile

E. eye contact

E. enthusiasm

Smile

By smile I don't mean that cheesy cool-aid smile. I mean the sly, slick half smile that you may see Brad Pitt or Mat Damon flaunt there pretty white teeth.

Eye Contact

keep eye contact. When you are speaking with someone keep your head up, with your eyes forward. Often most people focus there eyes on ether the right or the left eye of the person they are speaking with how ever like to focus on both eyes. In my experience it keeps you more focused on them.

Enthusiasm

Have that energy. Not that cheesy entertainer energy but that up beat you love life feeling. Its magnetic when you have that pep in your step it allows people to want to be around you.

try this stuff out and S.E.E. if it works out in your favor
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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